You say “awesome,” I say “incredibly toxic.” Looking at your profile, one thing jumps out at me several times: this bizarre and destructive idea that men and women should not be friends with each other.

You seem to view women as brood mares, not human beings—unfit to have social connections, unfit to have friendships with men except as a prelude to marriage. When I called that idea “toxic” just a second ago, I was being charitable.

It’s no wonder you’re not getting upvotes. Your answers to relationship questions are actively harmful. If you want more people to appreciate your answers, you might start by considering that maybe women are actually human beings.