Not me but my son and daughter in law stopped her parents from seeing their children when the two oldest were 5 and 3. Her parents refused to believe the oldest child had life threatening allergies, to eggs, tree nut, and legumes. Twice their refusal to believe put the 5 year old in the hospital with anaphylaxis. She took her mother to talk to the allergist and the mother refused to believe “her grandchild” could have devastating allergies. The final decision was made when my daughter in law was visiting her parents and in front of her the grandmother handed both children peanut butter cookies she had made with not only legumes ( peanuts) but with eggs as well. My daughter in law knocked the cookie out of her daughters hand and told her mother and father they would not see the children again. Her parents sued, demanding grandparents rights and alleging their daughter was making up the allergies to be interesting. MY daughter in law provided medical records including results of allergy tests and hospitalizations. The judge ruled against the grandparents. Before the court case she had let the grandchildren talk on the phone to their maternal grandparents but that stopped after the court case when she heard her mother tell her daughter who was then 7 on the speaker phone that grandma had left her a present on the porch but don’t tell mommie. Daughter went out and found a large peanut butter cookie with icing piped on it saying I love you”. I am sure they did but their stubborn refusal to refuse to believe in the danger they were putting their grandchild in got all contact removed. They also lost all contact with their only child and the other 2 grandchildren. It was sad.

You bet we follow the rules BOTH of our kids have for their children, to the letter. What they can and cannot eat, where we can take them, what movies they can see. The child is now 12 a lovely child and now is old enough to ask what is in any food and she knows what she can and cannot have and why and she carries and epipen and so does whoever takes her anywhere.

IT was terribly sad.

And yes the grandchild is vaccinated against COVID and as soon as was possible. In her allergists office with staff, epipens, and literally an ambulance waiting, in case aqnd they waited for an hour after the vaccination in the office. Since she was vaccinated with the Pfizer vaccine which doesn’t have eggs, tree nuts or legumes she sailed through with no problem.