Yes. I had gone to the lake house in Arkansas with my twin sister, nieces and twin Grandnieces and my son and returned to our city home early. Laurie answered my door in my robe. She said “what are you doing in the city? You are supposed to be at the lake.” Looking back I have no idea what I could have said or would have done differently. My family were unloading bags and I didn’t want a scene. I had suspected this affair was going on for years. My things would be moved at the lake house or the city house. My ex would leave the room to take calls. There were signs but I was consistently told “you’re crazy” by him when I would question my watch or jewelry being in a different place or a dress missing. I kept clothes and personal items at both houses. One of my bathing suits was left hanging over a banister. I would never do that. I’m ocd. But each and every time I questioned these oddities, my ex accused me of being crazy.

Here is a tip for anyone that suspects an affair is going on behind your back, listen to your instincts. You aren’t crazy.

Because I had my family with me and I was embarrassed and shocked, I went to a hotel for the weekend and filed for divorce the following Monday.