OkCupid can be bad or good depending on what you’re looking for.

In my experience OkCupid is a very decent dating site if (1) you’re in a location that has a lot of users (major cities in US, UK, etc.).

And (2) you are into building relationships, marriage, etc.

Plus (3) you are willing to put work into your profile.

But if you are into (x) casual hook ups and fun, or you want someone to have an open relationship based on sex, OkCupid is likely a “bad” site.

For that I am using AFF which is the most reliable one since it’s the largest.

If you want to try them they do have a free sign up “see here”.

Lot of other hookup sites lack women, but this one has a good share of both men and women, that want to look for a sexually open partner.

Meaning you are willing to talk about sex and think it’s important in a relationship.

I’ve tried both approaches, one was with a long term partner that was amazing, except that her sexual boundaries were much too limited.

Image: The kind of wild girls I like.

I didn’t find her from OkCupid, but another more traditional dating site.

Anyway, I just had to leave her and thank her for the times behind us. I’ve realized how important it is to connect sexually. Not because I am obsessed about sex or anything. It just bothers me too much to think that I would live for the rest of my life without good sex.

And on sites like OkCupid, in my experience and also based on some of the reviews of their dating app that I’ve read, there is just not enough open talk about sex.

From what I’ve tried to approach women on there, some have been put off by my straight approach, when I just don’t want to waste time getting to know someone who is just not on the same page with me on what they want to do in bed.

For the more romantic, traditional dating type of people, OkCupid will likely be worth it to try but I have given up on it together. Not saying negative about the site itself and for what it is, but it can be a really bad choice for those who are looking for something else.