My husband is 22 years older than me, and that’s had a hand in shaping our marriage and the life we’ve built together.

He’s had more experience in relationships, so he was able to guide me through the early stages of us getting to know each other and figuring out whether or not we fit. In return, I was able to share insights on modern dating practices and what changed since the last time he was with someone.

He never fails to remind me that I make him feel younger and more hopeful about life. My husband, on the other hand, has taught me a lot of things about being my own woman — someone strong and wise.

But our age gap is really just one of many things that contributed to our relationship. We’re also an interracial couple, so our cultural differences also factor into it. We also have pretty different personalities and temperaments.

An age gap can affect a couple’s dynamic, but if you’re committed to each other and your choices, all it will ever do is add more depth to your bond.