I do consider personal space and sexual boundaries to be part of the most essential considerations in a relationship. Regardless of what kind of relationship you have with a person, you must have lines that each of you shouldn’t cross.

First, personal space. This is important for a person’s peace of mind. This is where people get their emotional and mental strength. Asking for personal space may seem petty but it is a crucial aspect that determines someone’s ability to stay in and handle a relationship.

If you do not give personal space to your partner, your presence might burn them out or drain their emotional and mental baggage. You see, there are people who need alone time to be able to function well, particularly in dealing with people. So give your partner that personal right.

Second, sexual boundaries. This is an important relationship boundary that should never be neglected by both parties. It’s how a person allows or gives consent to be intimate with you. If they refuse, then forcing them becomes harassment.

Would you want a relationship where your partner looks at you with fear that you might cross this limitation? NO. Make them feel safe and comfortable as much as possible.