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This can hurt some men’s pride, but there are two kinds of men you’ll meet in life; the genuine and unserious ones.

I take it from experience. I’ve had countless interactions with both men and women and I realized how straight forward genuine men can be. If they don’t see something special in you, they can turn you down in a matter of seconds, and be clingy with the woman they’re attracted to.

Genuine men aren’t the type to grab just anyone in front of them. They are quite untouchable, I tell you. They have the ability to ignore tons of women who like them just to be loyal to that one woman that they love.

However, there are also unserious men who can interact with you despite not having any emotion towards you. These unserious men are capable of going to the flow and playing games. They can get close to you, act like you’re special, and make you believe there is something going on. They can look at you in the eyes while having empty feelings for you.

In the world of love and relationships, it is pretty hard to identify who is genuine. Did you catch his full attention and love? Or are you just someone he’s playing with? It’s hard to distinguish your place in someone’s life because people are pretty unpredictable. What’s important is to stay who you are, be genuine, don’t chase men and the rest of good things will follow.

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