Have you seen teenagers deeply and madly in love? Why do they feel such a strong mutual attraction? Hormones? More than that, it is the psychology. They:

1. Crave to be together. All the time. It is their top most PRIORITY. They don’t care which school they enroll into as long as both of them are in the same class!
2. Plan on giving more. They think, care and act for their partner more than for themselves. Even in little things like doing partner’s assignments, filling application forms, etc., Reread 1.
3. Do not worry about their future. How to make a living? Where to live? What if parents do not approve? None of that is worrying them. They are happy to earn less as long as they are employed in the same grocery store! Reread 1.

Hint: Long distance relationships, lengthy daily commute, expensive education, wedding, honeymoon, housing, lifestyle (anything that will throw you into debt and make you work even harder the next day just to stay where you are) will surely cause stress and choke love.

Happiness is: Living debt-free together, expecting less, giving more and not worrying.