ALWAYS ask for the price of specials if you are considering. Otherwise you might as well open your wallet and say “"take what you want!” I have no problem with paying big restaurant tabs, but I hate feeling suckered.

Verbally delivering specials is a way of obfuscating prices, because many diners are timid about asking. Get over it.

On one occasion a restaurant host asked if I'd like some white truffle shavings on an appetizer. I was occupied with an intriguing guest, so I unconsciously said “yes” and included her plate. Two quick passes on a grater and my tab increased by $160.

It was a fine meal, but the memory of this and a few others has been spoiled by being careless about money.