One sibling will always be favored. My mom gave birth to four, mostly healthy babies. ( The fourth baby was born with dyslexia and poor vision. She later on had depression when she was around 9. In other words, me! ) My second brother, A, was more favored because he was more responsible and good with being an adult. ( He became a father at 17 sadly. ) I have never heard my mother talk shit about him. She always talks shit about me and my first brother, U. My third brother, used to have shit talked about but has now ceased. My fourth brother ( he isn't my mom's. my dad had him around 19-18? with another woman. ) is always talked badly when or IF we talk about him.