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Why I’m Rebranding This Space: Brace yourself, a wall of text is coming. TLDR: This space will now be separate from the Humanistic BDSM brand because I can no longer support that group while it’s owned by an unethical person who placed lives at risk and is now illegally keeping my son from me in anoth…
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BDSM should not be abusive but tons of abusers have tried to hide behind “it’s just BDSM” as an excuse and they will coerce their partners into “consenting” (in quotes because true consent is informed and freely given).
Joreth Innkeeper
· 1yIs it possible to combine BDSM and abuse?
It is absolutely possible to combine abuse with literally any other interpersonal relationship or activity. Implicit under the banner of BDSM is the concept of “consent”, so it would seem, on paper, to be impossible to abuse someone if you are obtaining proper consent. The problem is that abusers are…
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· 9moYou look dominant, are you?
not sure what that even means but I think I just look like a typical next door girl who has a passion for Apple devices …
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, BDSM educator and lifestyle practitioner
, Dominant sadist masochist rigger rope slut whatever works
, Diagnosed at 7 years old.
, Physicist, nanotechnologist, dancer. Shibari, spanker...
, Home health care aide
, studied Lifestyle BDSM & Dominance and Submission at BDSM
, Experienced kinkster
, MA English Literature, Veer Narmad South Gujarat University (2025)
, former US Army at USCentCom (1975-1992)
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Humanistic BDSM was a space for education and discussion of ethical BDSM. Following the actions of its founder, Francheska Aguinot, I am putting this space on pause while I figure out what to do with it. Frankie took our son away from me, has tried to get him adopted without my consent, and has denied all access to him despite the fact that I have visitation rights by law and have not done anything to suggest that I would be dangerous or unfit.
She also pulled a gun and threatened to use it against my wife. These actions are not ethical and are not indicative of what HuBDSM stands for, therefore I cannot in good conscience continue to support a group that she is the face for and has repeatedly talked about monetizing for her benefit.