some people will think that this is not an appropriate thing to be said at a funeral, but to each their own. When I was 29, with a 2 year old and 5 month old, my 31 year old husband was killed in a car accident. I heard all the same bullshit that you hear at funerals (it’s gods plan, everything happens for a reason….all those unhelpful things), and honestly it just made me want to hide from everyone. But then my best friends dad walked up to me, gave me a hug and said “well this really sucks!”. It was the only thing I heard that day that didn’t have me running away from everyone.