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I will tell about my divorce story….I was married in 2017, after two years of marriage life, finally decided to get separated I am a central Govt. employee earn nearly 2 Lakh per month.. Honestly saying this was the reason for my divorce.. Because my husband earn less than me.. There was lot of ego clashes.. His family torture me for my money and Gold.. Whatever I do, they blame my job, and insult me in all possible ways.. My husband was a single child. So his parents used to interfere in all our personal things.. There was no privacy.. He used tell everything to his parents and they control him like anything.. Even going for a couple trip was not possible.. His parents always used to tell me that, they will not give their son for me. I don’t know why they are so much possessive, that even they forget I was his wife. I was completely shattered during the last two years. I was going through severe depression. When I told my husband about my depression, he told I am acting. He never used to care about my emotions. I used to go to doctor alone. And he told his parents that I am a mentally ill person.. Even they don’t understand what is depression feels like. I struggled a lot… I used to cry a lot… I used to feel alone in the house. He never used to support me emotionally. All financial expenditure of the house was done myself. He thinks that its my responsibility.. His parents insulted me many times, but he always took their side and made me alone. According to his parents, a girl is for kitchen work only. They never used to support my job. I was good at my job, I wanted to do higher studies. They never supported. But somewhere inside my heart, I loved him lot. Whatever he does with me, I still used to beg him to stay in my life. Somehow, the marriage was continued, for two year. Recently 5 months before, I had a big loss in my life. I lost my younger brother in an accident. It was the toughest phase in my life. He was my best friend. I was completely shattered after this incident. But the strange thing was, my husband did not supported me during this phase. When he came to know about my brothers death, he asked me to go home alone (we stay far from my home town) because he doesn't have leave. I wonder how it was possible for him to say like this. Still I begged him to come with me, because I cant travel alone this much far. Finally he took permission from his parents and he came with me. After reaching my home, my situation was very bad and I was completely lost. After 4 days, he told he is leaving back to work. From his family nobody came for funeral. His mother came on 4th day and she will go back with him. When I heard about it, I was really gone mad. How can he leave me alone in such a situation. I fought with him on that day. After a big fight, he and his mother left my house. After that he never called me or messaged me. He blocked me and his family asked for divorce. I don’t know why he did like this to me. Its not about divorce, at least i need him at this phase of my life. I begged him to stay, but his parents asked him to divorce and he agreed. After the rituals of my brother, I came back to my work place. But he was not there. he took his belongings and left the house. And want to get divorced. Even he did all these, I used to beg him to come back. he never replied to my messages… he always shouted at me.. I don’t know how someone can be so emotion less.. Finally I agreed for mutual divorce… Not even once he cared about me. He never asked whats my condition now..He left me just like that… I know he do everything according to his parents.. I was a toy for him.. I had a suicidal attempt also. But luckily I survived..There are lot of people around me, friends and colleagues who stood with me and supported during my worst phase.. Because of all these good people I am still alive in this world.. Now I am recovering from all the things happened in my life… I am accepting it and moving on.. Now I am more happier than when I was with him.. Now I am doing good at my Job.. Started learning my interests, Guitar, dance, etc. And living a peaceful life.. But still there are times I think about him and get confused, how easily he left me… And I got the answer, the people who leaves you during your tough time, is not meant for your life. . May be one day he will realise what he does with me..And I believe in Karma… Let the Karma does it…

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