I get irritated at my wife because of her over friendly attitude.

My wife is over friendly with everyone. Since she looks very beautiful everyone wants to get close to her. And everyone around her takes advantage of her over friendliness.

She is 25 yrs old and I am 31yrs. we got married two yrs ago. Because of her over friendliness she has lots of friends, mostly men. She has lots of friends in her office and also in our flats. Nobody knows my name in my flats but everyone knows my wife’s name and even her likings and dislikings. I am only known as Vinitha’s husband.

She is present in all the parties in our flats and in our friends circle. Since I am busy with my work I cannot accompany her all the time. But she don’t feel lonely at all without me. Whever she goes she has a whole lot of friends, that too men only.

Another thing which I don’t like about her is her dressings. She don’t dress like a married women. She always wears revealing cloths, exposing her breasts, navel and thighs. Just imagine how a over-friendly woman with exposing her beautiful body will be treated by others. All her male friends are taking much advantage of her. I can’t tolerate her facebook profile filled with photos taken with her male friends. In most of the pics she will be in the middle of group of guys, hugging & kissing. In all those pics her body is revealed. Some guys will be touching her thighs, wrapping their arms around her bare navel, etc.

She even goes swimming with her friends and take photos. That’s the height of my intolerance. I felt bad seeing those pics. She was in bikini, exposing her entire body, and her male friends are in underwear. She is squeezed among those semi-nude guys.

In some of the photos I can clearly see her friends were touching her boobs when their arms are in her shoulder or navel.

She also drinks in the parties. She says she is a occasional drinker but not alcoholic. I was afraid what will happen if she loses her conscious after drinking when she is with those friends. Sure they wont miss a chance. Even I wont miss a chance if a beautiful woman who loves to expose her body and get close with male friends, suddenly loses her consciousness. I don’t know if something already happened.

I got this doubt because of a two incidents. One was, in a party where she was drinking and dancing in a overly exposed dress, her friend was also dancing with her. It was not like a dancing at all, there were lots of erotic movements in it. He was touching her everywhere. As soon as I saw this I tried to get near, but before I went he just grabbed her and kissed on her lips. She didn’t push him away till I come and kicked him. Then she acted like it was an unexpected incident.

Second incident was in our flats itself. In upstairs there are some bachelors, they are also her friends. One day when I came late I found her not at home. I remembered she told that there’s a small bachelor party in that upstair flat. So I went there, the door was open. When I entered the hall I got shocked. There are 5 or 6 guys smoking and drinking wearing only their night dress. Half of them are topless. Among those guys my wife is the only woman sitting there in her usual revealing dress with a beer bottle in her hands. They were sitting on the floor. She was leaning on a guy, spreads her legs on another guy sitting next to them. And that guy was keeping his hands on her thighs (she was wearing shorts). I called her to come home, but she told me to go home and sleep, and she will come later. Another guy said “yes, we will send Vini after we finish everything” and he laughed. I don’t understand what he means by ‘finish everything’ ? I insisted her to come with me. Without liking she came with me. I cant imagine what would have happened on that day if I didn’t bring back my wife to home.

I keep telling her that people around her are taking advantage of her over friendliness, but she never listens to me. She says I am an introvert and that’s why I can’t digest her extrovert characters.