So this was way back in high school but I had moved schools in middle school and joined this group of friends, one girl in the group and I hit it off and were very close. I helped her get out of a couple year very abusive relationship. Then I started dating a guy in the group in my freshman to sophomore year, at some point after about a year and a half we decided that we really never were “dating” we were just great friends who slept together so we “broke up” to go back to being friends but we decided to still sleep together until one of us got into another relationship. Anyway, we are about a year into this agreement when he told me we had to stop and I was happy too. Then they came out as dating my best friend and my ex-whatever you would call that relationship. Surprisingly I didn’t care at all, at this point mine and his relationship was kind of bro-ish. We really cared for each other but we had no feelings for each other romanticly. What actually happened was I was ignored and given the silent treatment out of this group of friends I had for over four years. Knowing full well she was getting into a relationship with my ex she decided I was then the enemy who wanted to steal her man and she had all the girls exile me from the group.

Okay yes, it was all petty drama, but so is all of high school. I quickly gave up and made some new friends for my senior year I found a few great guys to hang out with and most the guys in the original group still talked to me and invited me out when my ex and his new girl weren't there. Anyway now to what I did to get her back; One day I was walking through the parking lot and I saw this girl with blue hair like very nasty making out on a bench with some guy. I quickly recognized her and this random other guy and just sent a snapchat to my ex-boyfriend. He told me he came out saw what was happening and they broke up. She threatened me for months after this, and my ex and I never went back to being friends the way we had before ( I didn’t trust him very much for letting her do all of that). The best part is she then went to the guy I had dated for a few months after they had gotten together and I had to do it again when I caught her making out with some guy in a McDonalds, maybe I never would have done anything to get her back unless she had been being such a hoe.