Had a 9 year relationship with a girl, was the strangest thing. Every six months or so she would break up with me telling she didn’t love me anymore, then a month later she would be back. It became so regular I stopped seeing other girls when we were broken up because I knew she would be back, and then i would have to break it off with whoever I started up with, because I still loved her. I used to just tell myself she was crazy or bi-polar or something, and I always had hope that it would stop. 9 years and 18 breakups later, I had enough. Usually when she would leave, I would try to be somewhat understanding about it, figuring if I was an ass that would just validate whatever it was she didn’t like about me. The time I decided was the last straw, I let out all the anger I had been building up for 9 years out in a fiery explosion on purpose. I turned all the mean things she ever said to me right back at her, and then told her to get the fuck out and never come back. Typically with crazy girls this caught her off guard because i had never done it before, and made her start crying to me to stop because it hurt so much (even within my controlled burn, the stuff I said to her wasn’t nearly as bad as the stuff she had said to me over the years), but it was too late, I was over it, but I had wasted 9 years on a girl that I shouldn’t have. The first time she said she didn’t love me I should have taken that for what it was and left. It either means she really doesn’t love you, or is too confused to know what the fuck she wants, but either way, not good for you