After being hurt and ignored by this guy I thought I couldn't live without I realized I had to do something about my damned self since I could do nothing about him. The last time he failed to show up for our date I didn't call and whine, I didn't get drunk and tell everyone what he did. I did nothing. At all. He called me later that night but I didn't pick up. He texted me and I didn't reply. The next day he started early calling and leaving messages and it was very hard but I didn't respond so he comes over and knocks on my door and I opened the door with a smile. I said "hey what's up?" He went into his shpeel about him being worried about me. I said "why are you worried about me?" he started to explain but I stopped him. "Look" I said "no big deal, I'm actually kinda busy right now and don't have time but you can call me later" He wanted to know what I was doing that was more important than listening to him lie to me again so I told him I'm watching tv and I really have to go. Goodbye. He was all cocked and primed to come over and forcefeed me an excuse for screwing me over but I wasn't listening to any more of his crap I was sick and tired of him and instead of punching him in his mouth ( I call his mouth a lie hole) I smiled and said goodbye. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to do but it was rewarding to know he had told me his last lie. Being toyed with is infuriating but being indifferent to someone who's toying with your emotions feels so good. I must stress, no arguing about it, no whining, no animosity just indifference. Its not easy but it kills them inside to take their toy away from them while you appear unphased. Good luck you're in a situation that emotions can get out of control.