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I started dating this girl, 30, I am 30 too. It was cool, when we met, she told me she broke up with her bf a couple of months ago. I started inviting her to dinners, we started hanging out casually. Then things developed fast, and we became bf and gf. For 2 months, things were amazing, she told me she loved me so much, and she thinks about me all the time, I felt the same! I told her from the beginning, I was looking for a long lasting relationship that would lead to marriage. Then all in a sudden, she started flaking on our dates, not answering my texts or phone calls. I thought she might be busy with work, then one day, I went to visit her at work, she works at a restaurant, she kissed me and everything seemed fine. I waited for her to close like always, and she came out, she was supposed to go out with me, she hugged me, kissed my neck and said: “you are going to hate me, I’m gunna go home”. I was like why? We had plans! She was like i just want to go home, things have been moving extremely fast and it spooked me, I said, are we breaking up? She said “you are over thinking it”. So she went home and I drove home. She was not normal with me. So I kept asking her if she wanted to be with me or not, she said, she really has not thought about it yet and that she’s been busy with holidays and work. Fast forward 3 weeks, I went to her work, she was there, she started making out with me in front of all her customers, and colleagues, I thought, sweet, things are back on track, she started calling me on facetime and chat for hours, also told me that she was tired and anti-social. I believed her… until, one day she told me she was cat-sitting for her 72 year old friend, and she just wanted to drive home and not talk on the phone, my gut told me there is something going on. I knew where her friend lived, but she did not know that, so I drove there after work, her car was still there!! So I texted her, did you make it home safely? No reply, so I approached the house, I saw her on top of another man from the kitchen window! I was shocked, in disbelief and instant grief! I called her, she got off of her other bf, switched her phone off and went back on him. So, i went and knocked on the door, no answer, after like 30 secs, I knocked harder. She came out, with a horrified look on her face when she saw me, saying, i am going home now! I said, you lying piece of crap, what about the man inside? And hey? Give me the apple watch I bought you. She gave it to me, went back inside, I knocked on the door, and her bf came. I was shocked to see, he was her bf’s little brother, who is 6 years younger than her and she told me was like her little brother. Here begins the revenge. I told him how she told me he’s getting a lot of inheritance money and how she is using him, I found from the watch in her emails that she has hepatitis c, infecting every single one she sleeps with without them knowing, I told her bf all the shit she talked about her. I told her colleagues, how she cheated on me, they were shocked. I found out that she was still talking to her ex, still in love with him. And the 72 year old friend she is cat-sitting for, she is sleeping with him as well. she has some other dudes she calls daddy (probably sugar daddies). I told a lot of people she knows, with photos of the watch how she is a compulsive liar. Her ex told me how she has a borderline personality disorder. I told her prospect employer how she was planning to get him to leave his wife and be with her (she sent txt msgs to her bf saying he has a lot of money and is up my ass). Best of all, I told her bf’s family how she has hepatitis, and is sleeping with their son, how she is using them, all the shit she talked about them. They thought I was her “business partner”. I think they kicked her out of their house, she was staying with them after breaking up with her ex. Basically, she always draws that picture in every body’s mind that she is the innocent sweet girl that her ex’s are horrible and evil. Best of all, i found out that all she told me about her baby daddy were lies too, she told me he was a jerk and that’s why she left him, after talking to him and his wife, she actually cheated on him and found her having a strip contest online with her ex husband (who is a drug addict and the one gave her the hepatitis). Basically, she cheats on everyone, lies about everyone and spreads diseases to everyone. Now a lot of people know who she really is, and her baby daddy told me she’s been looking like a wreck lately, justice served.

edit-1: she texted me saying I have crushed her and that I was winning (I don’t know why she thinks it’s a game). She called the Sheriff saying I was stalking her, the deputy called me to ask where I was, I was 40 miles away, in another city.

edit-2: She was kicked out of her best friend’s house. She did not tell them he has hepatitis, neither that she was sleeping with their son. She was caught with all the lies.

edit-3: She is back to live with her ex husband (the drug addicted one).

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