I worked for this couple at a restaurant / lounge years ago . They both worked there pretty much day and night. They made me their manager . I was close with his wife and she told me most all their dirty laundry. After they split the husband told me his side to everything. She was quiet bubbly and pretty w/ personality plus. He was also very handsome. They were in their early 30’s. As time went by they started to fight a lot till both were miserable with each other and had major burnout from the restaurant life. There was many salesmen , truck delivery drivers , beer and liquor salesmen, and delivers coming daily and weekly etc. Well she started an affair with one of the delivery drivers and it went on for over a year. She told me up under one of the drop ceiling tiles she found a suitcase full of gay men's magazines , toys etc. She said they had to be her husband's. The war continued. It become rough on me listening to both confide in me about the other. But the worst thing I've ever heard is what he done to her when he found out about her affair. First, he spread it around she had herpes . Worst yet, was the next story he told me what he'd done to her. If you've ever seen the type douche that you pull out the nozzle then unscrew the top and put the iodine in the water, replace and use… he told me he put hot pepper juice in her douche. He thought that was great ! She told me she had to go to the emergency room in horrible pain… I thought that was the worst revenge story I'd ever heard with my own ears. I can't imagine how extreme of a burn she received from that !!! They divorced of course. I said man I'll never buy a restaurant with my husband. !! Their relationship was torture. He actually wanted me to date him after the fact ….I said oooooh noooo . You're my boss. But having heard all the dirt I was like , NEVER.