After about 2 years of marriage we moved into a bigger home, that Christmas we decided to host at our house to invite both our families. I was excited to show the moms I could host a big dinner, they asked if they could bring anything I said maybe a side dish or dessert or something, not a big deal. Well come that afternoon, my mother in law showed up with tin lined boxes of filled with an entire cooked turkey dinner. My dinner was almost ready but she insisted on hers. She also brought all her dishes and place settings, a centre piece for the table, glasses, you name it. She placed her hand soap in my kitchen to go with the tea towels, kitchen rugs and other kitchen decor from her house. She insisted they wear their slippers in case my floors weren't clean… they were.. I was pissed but let it go. Then my own mother who thought it was all weird as fuck came to me and asked if I'd seen my washroom yet.. the woman went as far as to redecorate my entire bathroom right down to the shower curtain with all stuff from her house. I was flabbergasted. I'd never seen anyone behave this way, she told me she wanted her husband to feel comfortable. He was pretty laid back and drunk and probably didnt give a shit. When she left that night, she re-packed all if her boxes with all her items and left. I told my husband, he needs to talk to her and that cant ever happen again. Low and behold, come Easter, same thing. I'd had enough. She can do it at her house from now on. The following Christmas my new son was 9 days old. She showed up at 7am with camera and tri-pod. She insisted were doing a family photo right then and there. I kicked her out of my house that day and never looked back. Weee divorced now