My dad.

I'll try and make this super short…but.. Well, probs won't be able to.

So…

My mom, had lupus, back issues, was using a walker, kidney failure, lots and lots and LOTS of other health issues.

My dad divorced her when I graduated highschool. My brother has autism. I, am the youngest, and was the sole care taker of my dearest mommy.

Well, my brother was there too, but…he couldn't really “care” as I did.

Anyways, so yeah. My dad divorced her. My mom, when they were together, would cook, clean, drive me and my brother to our appts, special activities, special needs activities, piano lessons, therapy sessions, etc. And guess what, there were 2 of us, me and my brother, so 2x the appts and activities. My dad.. Just sulked. Because he had a son with autism, and a wife who was very sick, and a normal son, who sucked at academics.

Well, my dad and my late mother, fought a lot. Actually, my dad would belittle her, and she'd always cry…like.. Sad cry, very very sad cry. Always sing.. While crying.. To the lord, as to why she was given this body, and was treated like that.

So you guys get the picture right?

Anyways, fast forward to 2018, my dad remarried. 30byears younger wife.

Not bad right?

Hah! Wait…

So the wife, doesn't know my dad's like 60. As it was online dating/marriage or whatever (were Chinese based Asian btw). So…yeah. I roll in to say hi to my dad, cus it was this annual, family, “family” thing (mom was still alive - but not included in these “family” events, as it was my dad's family), and my dad's parents were there, so…me and my bro were invited to attend my dad's bday again. Well, the wife sees me and my brother, who has facial hair.. Etc…and….. Because he has autism, he's naturally happy that he's getting older! (lol JK, not saying this to any offense of those with autism, just.. Stating it because it's something he's truly proud of and I'm very fond of that aspect of him! Go bro bro!) and my brothers like, “happy bday dad!” and then he later goes…”February I'm going to be 27!”

The wife is like… o.o face.

Lol. LOL. HAHAHAHA HAH.

it sucked, cus…my dad has new kids now. The baby, was I think 8 months old.

Anyways, the new wife is a little princess. Such that, they don't cook, drive, care for their babies, etc. She's 30+, and when she was jn China, her mother did everything for her.

It's sad. Despicable, and just outright awful.

I'm sad for my dad, but I know it's karma. Me and my dad's relationship wasn't the best, but we always wanted the best for eachother. I'm more pissed that he treated my mom like that., along with calling me trash and garbage since I didn't do well in school. Well.. Now I'm getting 3.8>4.0 GPA…in college. Can't believe it, lmao I really can't believe it.

I'm home with my brother now, my mom passed last year, and it's still rough for us. I'm sad, because my dad's terrified of his new wife, yet has kids.. And he's very smart. He knows how sucky his life was during the divorce. And he just up-and-did it again. Except.. He's married, not divorced.

So anyways. Yes, that's.. Not exactly instant karma. But it's some straight up karma.

But, I'm.. Really sad, because we live 4 mins away from eachother, and I'm not allowed to see him because the wife's embarrassed she's 11 yrs older than me. Even tho I babysit her kids while she played with her 3 flowers outside in her little garden.

Wow. Divorces really suck, and…just…life sucks. Lmao. Can't believe my mom put up with that, just to keep the family together. And I sat there telling her the divorce wouldn't happen, when it was already in the midst of being half way done.

Sucks being a kid to parents who are divorcing. You never are told anything. Divorce just sucks.

I don't want to say my dad deserved the karma, but…he's pushing 60, and has 2 babies. One that's 2, and one that's nearing 3.

I play with them for 10mins, get tired. And I'm a young fit 20 year old. lol

Sucks