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Going out dancing I met this guy, we started chatting and I ended up at his place for a couple of nights. We did had sex but it wasn't anything serious for one of us. It was a one time thing. Later on I found out he had a girlfriend and I even met her. We never told her what had happened and I felt bad for her since it didn't really ment anything.

Years later somehow she found out because someone had a slip of the tong. This guy turned out to be a cheater first class. So I got also mixed up in it. So when she did find out he of course denied it. Told everyone and anyone that I was ugly and if I was the only person on earth he still wouldn't go with me. Even the people that knew about it started to question me if it even happened. This guy was a genius in how he could talk.

I got fed up with his nasty words. I decided to call him. Asked him, “why do you say all those nasty words about me, you could have just denied it, why making up these stories how ugly I am?” He told me that she would never had believed him if he only denied it. I asked him why he can't just be honest. He told me she can't handle that.

So I told him, that if he stops talking nasty and lies about me, I will tell his girlfriend that I lied and that we never had sex. “What do you think?”

He was so surprised and grateful for having such a good friend. He said that on the phone. I told him “that's what friends are for” What I didn't tell him was that I recorded the whole conversation and played it out to his girlfriend. Years later we met briefly and when he looked into my eyes the only thing he could do was start laughing. There were no hard feelings.

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