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I used to work for a cosmetic brand were one of my very senior co-worker used to regularly flirt with me. I didn’t mind since i also liked him. He was good looking man in his early 30’s while i was a 23 year old girl still figuring out life and career.

One day he asked me out for a date and thus we started our relationship. All was well but one day one of my friend asked him for his wedding plans with his girlfriend, i was frightened since we haven't told anyone about our relationship. Then i got to know that he has a girlfriend at his hometown and she was 19 yrs old.

When i asked him about that he told me that he thought that i was not that serious about the relationship and it was just a fun thing for me. I fought with him and he was generous enough to tell me that he had lot many similar “fun” relation earlier since his girlfriend stays far away from him so of course he couldn't stay alone. And since his GF was preety, very young and apparently have been saving her virginity for him he deserves nothing less than that.

I left, but was very sure of the fact that how well he was using the girl. He already told me stories about how few of his friends have earlier told his GF about his fings but she never believed them.

I made a plan, photo shopped few of our whatsapp conversation and made it look like him being a creepy lover and making me false promises of marriage and in the process belittling his girlfriend. I created a fake facebook profile, connected with the girl and told her my story, providing the photo shopped whatsapp convo as a proof, i just sent everything and never spoke to the girl.

I saw him after 4 days in office canteen, we had an eye contact (i didn't wanted to). In evening i got a call from him, pleading me to meet and how he realized that he loved me so much. And he was ready to leave his GF for me, on asking why, he replied- She is very childish and i am not going to baby sit her forever.

Many would say that was wrong, i should have directly talked to his GF rather than sending fake screenshots from fake profile, but to me it doesn't matter i did it for the girl. I have met lot many assholes i my life, he hardly mattered to me once the truth was out, but i couldn't leave the girl with such person.

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