I got my girlfriend’s kid taken away after she essentially cheated on me with her ex boyfriend.

Years ago, when I was 21, I had an older, divorced girlfriend with a little 4 year old girl.

She held herself out as a “devout” Mormon and she worked in a small town as a hair dresser (strikes one and two).

Like all hairdressers, she had all the sexual morality of a meth-addicted porn star. She had a rough past, but (to her credit) lied to me about her actual body count. Over time, we moved in together (after she kept insisting on it).

The problem of course was that both her (new) church and her ex husband couldn’t know anything about me living with her.

Of course, as is ALWAYS the case, there was the ex boyfriend still sniffing around. She of course played it down with the proverbial, “Oh… he’s just a friend”, predictable b.s.

Well, I found out that she was still cutting his hair and stayed in contact with him. Did she kiss him (or worse)? Don’t know. But she lied about talking to him and refused to break contact with him even though I made the huge commitment leap to move in and start preparing for marriage with her.

This went on for a couple of months. I had enough and didn’t deserve that crap. Between this and learning more about her sexual past, I wound up moving out.

Now, for what follows: Keep in mind, I was only 21.

After this, I contacted her ex-husband and told him about us living together behind his back. Also, to make sure she learned her lesson, I contacted the Bishop over her stake (basically, that’s an area manager).

I am not sure the downfall regarding her church. I am sure she wasn’t excommunicated, but the humiliation she suffered was probably hilarious to see.

The ex filed a Motion to Modify Custody of their child. I was eventually subpoenaed for a deposition (yes, I hated that part and realized then that I went too far).

Not sure what exactly happened after that, but I found out that he won primary custody of their daughter and she wound up living with him until she graduated high school.

I looked her up on FB recently. She eventually got some small town SIMP to marry her. I checked her Friends list and yes, this ex-boyfriend is on her FB account.