We humiliated the woman that tried to enter my relationship and split us up. She pushed up on him for months trying to get him to be interested in her. During one of our fighting sessions, she finally got him to allow her to give him oral sex in the back of a car at lunch. From that, she tried to initiate an affair but he only wanted to use her for the oral sex.
She was desperate for me to find out about the fling to hurt me because he wouldn’t leave me for her. She wanted him to sell our home, invest with her, turn in our brand new truck and ruin our credit, promising she would buy him a car if he did so. He didn’t and had no intention of doing this. She thought if I found out I’d simply step aside and give her everything her and her husband were seeking from him as they tried to swindle him.
When I found out, she then sued me for a restraining order, lying about me to make me look “dangerous.” In court, every single bit of her desperate behavior was revealed in front of me - everything she didn’t want me to know. That she had fallen in public to her knees begging him not to dump her and all of her co-workers knew he had immediately dumped her when I found out. That she couldn’t get him to kiss her (she smokes and he hates ashtray mouths). That he wouldn’t say I love you and she desperately needed him to. Things like that which she was furious I was learning about her and even worse things. She was desperate for me to believe he loved her and I knew better.
I also revealed her intention to swindle him in court, due to his disability and she was in a rage. Then, after the judge ordered both of us to stay away from one another, she began stalking him so he filed a police report for stalking and harassment. After that, you could hear birds chirp. She was disappearo! It couldn’t have BEEN more wonderful revenge. She’s what they call in limerence with him, so she’s grieving now because of her own vile stupidity in trying to pursue a man involved with another woman.
And us? We got counseling and worked out the issues that caused him to stray like most couples do.