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I noticed an interesting thing.

When you have 2 kids. One older than the other, whenever there's 'something' happening between them (use your imagination), and the younger usually screams/cries quicker, we tend to ask the older one by default "what's going on"? "What happened there"? Etc.

We ask the older one, sub consciously and that is not allways fair and could create jealousy, resistance, etc.

I started recently asking the younger one rather than the older one, and it works magic.

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