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I was a broken guy at that time before I met her. My ex was cheating on me. And when I realized that I was heartbroken. Really having a bad time. But life gives you hints in a very subtle way and I ignored that. Which eventually led to my breakup. I was meeting and socializing with people after months of that incident but never found anyone to be the right one. But I wasn't rushing things. As I don't want to repeat the same mistake twice.

I was DJing in a private party and there came a girl requesting a song which was a favourite of mine and immediately I started noticing her. She was cool and had a good taste in music. We talked and then I asked for her number. I also saw that some others guys wanted her number so she gave her number to them as well. This really disappointed me. But hey, she was single right? She can share her number with whoever she wants to. But I can see that she was interested in me too. I finally got up and got into my car with my friend. I was talking about her with my friend. As I was starting my car I looked at the entrance of that place and was thinking about her. And Boom, she came out of that entrance looking for me. I was wondering what happened. She saw me and came running to me and said, “ can you confirm which one is your number”. I was in seventh heaven. This time I myself saved my number in her phone. The next few nights were sleepless as we talked over phone from dusk to dawn. We didn't even propose. It just clicked.

It's been 9 years now and we are getting married soon. But we have seen a lots of ups and downs. Still we hold on to each other. She transformed me into a better man and I transformed her into a better woman. We are not perfect rather we are a simple couple. We have our difference in views. But who cares. It's really not about perfection , it's about imperfections and living with it. ☮️

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