No matter which stage you yourself are currently at, Martinus will give you personalized advice how to best engage in sexuality in a way that furthers your spiritual evolution. How to avoid hurting yourself and/or others, and how to be a blessing to all living beings.
This answer will explain the development of sexuality from the most primitive caveman, all the way up to the perfect human being. It will explain falling in love, jealousy, cheating, reproduction, marriage, family, why marriages and families are declining in the western world, homosexuality, bisexuality, perversions (e.g. paedophilia, pyromania), true love, true friendship and much, much more.
To understand the thoughts of Martinus regarding sex, it is first necessary to understand a few of his explanations.
Firstly: we are eternal, immortal beings forever evolving through reincarnation. We develop while physically incarnated, and rest while in the spiritual world between lives.
Secondly: the current stage of terrestrial mankind is, that it’s neither an animal per se, nor a true human being. We’re right in between. The animal in us is what makes us selfish, angry, hateful and egotistical, the human part of us is what makes us loving, peaceful, forgiving, tolerant and selfless.
Thirdly: we have two poles inside us, a masculine pole and a feminine pole. For women the masculine pole is associated with the brain, whereas the feminine pole is associated with the genitals. For men the feminine pole is associated with the brain, whereas the masculine pole is associated with the genitals.
The development and evolution of mankind is from an animal (I love myself first, others second) to a true human being (I love others like I love myself).
This development is taking place synchronously with the balancing out of our two poles, the masculine and the feminine.
A caveman is almost completely one poled (only governed by his genital pole) whereas a true human being has both poles in balance (brain and genital, feminine and masculine).
This development from the stage of cavemen up to the state of the perfect human being can take several different routes.
To help illustrate the different paths of evolution, Martinus has described several types of human beings using the letters of the alphabet: From A people all the way to K people, with A people being the most primitive, and K people being True Human Beings.
By understanding these different stages of pole development, we can understand the role sexuality has played in the course of human evolution, the role it plays in modern society, and the role it will play in the future. Furthermore, it will help you understand which stage you yourself are currently at, how you got there, and how to best proceed and evolve spiritually.
In general, we can divide the different types in: healthy course of evolution vs unhealthy course of evolution. And all the types fall into one of three categories: the zone of happy marriages, the zone of unhappy marriages and finally the zone of the happy friendships.
Now, let’s start with the first type: A people. This is the first type, and corresponds to the first and most primitive people on Earth. Back before the time of Moses, and all the way back to ape-man.
This is a healthy type, in the zone of the happy marriages. These people are completely one poled. This means life has only one purpose: find a mate of the opposite sex and raise a family. Just like the animals. This is the only possible source of joy and happiness at this stage. Through sexual contact and the orgasm, the highest light and pleasure is found, an intuitive glimpse of the Spirit of God, experienced unconsciously through the genitals. The husband and wife love each other completely. This is prompted by gland secretions and hormones, upholding a permanent ‘high’ making you forever love your spouse and family.
Everything outside the marriage and family is suffering. It’s a fight against nature, it’s a fight for survival, and it’s a fight against members of the same sex in the competition for the best available partners of the opposite sex. This means men hate other men because they’re competitors, and women hate other women because they’re competitors. But other than that, due to the great happiness and the complete fulfillment of the glimpses of the Spirit of God through sexual union, A people are not particularly evil-doing.
Now, the B people. This is an unhealthy development. These are A people somehow straying from the normal course of evolution through wrong thoughts, words and deeds. These wrong thoughts, words and deeds start off small, and then progressively escalate. Maybe it starts with infidelity, lying, cheating, or neglecting the family. If they keep at it, eventually the men could become pimps, gangsters or serial womanizers. The women become prostitutes, professional mistresses or otherwise overly promiscous and egotistical. Either very quickly, or only after lenghty and intense karmic suffering, the B people get straightened out, and return to a normal course of development (either to A or C people). Otherwise, they can continue even further “into the darkness”, and become D people.
C people is the next step in the “normal, healthy evolution”. After several lives of repeatedly being happy A people, living in life long, monogamous relationships, and generally following their particular religion’s guidance, something new starts to happen. The extraordinary pole start developing, and this creates some issues. This means men become more feminine (their brain pole starts developing) and women become more masculine (the brain pole). This also means C people become much more intelligent, ethical and humane. Their only challenge is that they’ve outlived “the zone of happy marriages” and are now entering “the zone of unhappy marriages”. This means instead of solely loving their partner and their family, they now start having intellectual or humane interests outside of the family. E.g. the nation, the state, philosophy, religion, science, art etc. So, actually these people contribute a lot to society, but they aren’t naturals at life long, monogamous marriages anymore. At this state, divorces start happening (this is the trend we see in many western countries nowadays).
D people are at an unhealthy stage. Either it’s B people, becoming further degenerate, or it’s C people “going down the wrong path”. D people consist of the “overly masculine women” or “overly feminine men”. Several events can lead to healthy types turning into D people: 1) a male child being seduced by a perverted, male adult (or a girl being seduced by a perverted, adult woman), 2) long stays in monasteries or nunneries (where people are kept from expressing and satisfying their natural, sexual urge), 3) long stays in prison (likewise cut off from a normal sex life) or 4) war (likewise, men at the front lines without access to women, or women back at home, with all the men gone). The reason for why these 4 options can lead to perversion, is that through sexual contact with someone of the same gender too early in the pole development, the brain pole opens up too quickly. In the case of monasteries, prisons or war, it happens that due to the strong sexual urge, but no partners of the opposite sex, people turn to the only available option: their own sex. So, the brain pole goes through a forced, accelerated development. Because in every sexual act, there must be a feminine and a masculine. So, between two men, one of them will play the feminine. Or between two women, one of them will play the masculine. So, instead of the person attaining a balance between the two poles, they end up with the brain pole completely taking over. Once again, either D people find their way forward through ethical living, and evolve to become E people (a healthy type, which I will describe shortly), or they further degenerate into either F or G people (who are both very unhealthy types).
E people are either heterosexual, bi-sexual or switch between periods of hetero sexuality and periods of homosexuality. But, no matter which sexuality they practice, E people have a very high standard when it comes to ethics and morals. Furthermore, they are very intelligent, and very compassionate. However, no matter which sexuality, they are no longer marriage material. The gland secretions and hormones making people “fall in love” no longer hold power over them. Instead they truly love another person for who that person is. But they have already outlived the desire for lifelong marriage in the A and C stage, so they won’t marry and have children (or if they do, usually it won’t work out). They have too many intellectual and humane interests and pursuits in life, other than family. Their morals are stronger than their sexual urge.
F people are “psychopaths”. They have either gone straight from B people (gangsters, criminals, pimps and prostitutes), to D (feminine man or masculine woman), to F, or they were healthy E people who strayed from the normal path through unethical living. These are the pyromaniacs, serial killers, serial rapists and otherwise violent perverts. They can no longer get sexual satisfaction from normal sex, and therefore they stray towards more and more extreme acts. This happens when a person’s religious sentiment and/or relationship with God is weaker than the person’s sexual drive. The sexual drive takes over, and slowly they degenerate into F people.
G people are the embodiment of “evil”. They are F people who kept following their desire into ever darker realms of perversions, and have now reached the culmination of darkness. All that would normally generate pleasure (love, tenderness, warmth) is now exchanged for what would normally produce pain (violence, torture, sadism, masochism, murder etc). All these painful, violent acts, now produce pleasure in G people instead.
After reaching the extremes of F or G people, the bad karma generated from these horrible acts finally returns. After suffering this horrible karma for long enough, the F and/or G people finally start having a desire for a “normal” way of life. And the more this desire grows, the more they start returning to a normal, healthy way of life. No soul is ever lost. After the darkness has culminated, the only next progression is a return towards the light. Just like the prodigal son returns to his Father’s house.
H people is the next healthy stage for C people. These are beings of immense intellectual genius, and inexplicable love and compassion for all living beings. They have somehow managed to stay more or less within the normal path of development (with both its joys and pains) as A and C people. Their extraordinary pole is very highly developed. This means they still are sexually attracted to the opposite sex, but the sympathy they feel for their own gender is steadily increasing as the brain pole grows. This is why we see the great “lifelong friendships” or friends who will die for each other. Actually, it is the beginning stages of the love coming from the brain pole, just without the sexual part.
I people are the last type of people just before reaching the stage of “True Human Being”. Both poles are very close to equal, they love everything and everyone, they could never hurt another living being. They are actually just in the last stage, before the brain pole completely wakes up.
J people are “Jesus like people”. K people are like Christ. The brain pole and genital pole is in perfect balance. Their masculine and feminine side are in perfect harmony. They can be both firm and indomitable when needed, but also gentle and tender when it’s called for. They feel equal love for both genders, also sexually.
To wrap up this post:
This post has described all the stages mankind goes through, all the way from caveman to a True Human Being. We’ve seen how A people go from hating everyone of the opposite sex (competitors and rivals), and only loving a single person of the opposite sex, all the way to H, I, J and K people, who love everything and everyone.
The whole point of understanding this development, is to understand the intermediary stages. Because this is where people can go off on a wrong path. This is what we currently see in the Western World: huge divorce rates, men becoming more feminine, women becoming more masculine, massive increase in homosexuality and bisexuality, and no one knows why it’s happening. Is it right, is it wrong?
It’s simply the natural course of development. By knowing about this whole evolutionary journey, the sexual pole development, we can make sure we don’t go down a wrong path. And if we discover we’ve already become one of the less healthier types, now we know why. Furthermore, we know how to get out of it, before it spirals out of control.
“Be a blessing to all living beings, and never hurt yourself or others”. If you follow this rule, you’ll be sure to stay clear of bad karma. Don’t lie, don’t cheat, don’t let your sexuality be stronger than your morals. Your sexuality must never, ever take advantage of other people, nor hurt them in any way.
Make sure to forgive, make sure never to condemn or judge others, nor hate others. They might be different, maybe they’ve taken a wrong path somehow, but bless them and pray for them. We’ll all find our way, eventually.
The old religious guidance regarding sex and marriage was intended to guide A people to a good life, or to help B people find their way back. But all the following types, C, D, E, F, G, H, I, J and K don’t have guidance in the normal religions. And science (the usual guide for C people and above) don’t know exactly why people develop abnormal desires, or why people become homosexuals, bisexuals, paedophiles, serial killers, rapists etc (not to compare normal, healthy homosexuals and bisexuals with the abnormal types). Therefore Martinus has given this lengthy advice, to help guide us. Martinus himself was in the category of the J type people.
And yes, just to reiterate; if homosexuals or bisexuals still “fall in love” and experience the hormonal high, feel jealous and possesive, show low intellectual and moral standard, they somehow belong to one of the unhealthy types. However, if they love someone for who they truly are, don’t feel jealous nor possive, show high intellectual and moral standard, they are probably E people, which is a very high evolutionary stage.
So, how do you find out which type you are? You can start by measuring your interest in family and marriage, and comparing it with your interests outside starting a family. Furthermore, find out your religious sentiment; do you live on blind faith, are you atheist or materialist, are you a humane/ethical materialist or an intellectual religious person? What’s your sexuality like? What are your morals like?
By looking at these things, you can identify which type you are, and make sure you stay on the right path.
Rememeber, the development from A to J happens over the course of many, many life times. Therefore, how you are today, in this life, could very well be the result of how you lived in a past life. Maybe you were a monk or a nun, maybe you were at war for decades. Maybe you were a saint. The things you did to others (and yourself) in those lives shape who you are today. So, if you feel less than content with your current state of affairs, simply start planting new, positive karmic seeds today, and you’ll turn your whole life (and future lives) around.
If you have further questions, please don’t hesitate to ask in the comments.
Blessings
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