To help my husband - always thinking it will benefit both of us and our kid as a family. Been married for 11 yrs now hv a 9 yr old. And 2nd one on the way. So far supported husband with close to 30–40 lacs (sold all my jewellery, taken 2–3 personal loans for him, monthly expenses I manage from day one). I feel cheated and very upset.. Feel like walking away from this marriage. But I don't know what's stopping me. Even today he is peniless with ₹0 bank balance (yes) and I feel he is not bothered about us at all. I manage a-z expenses of me, kid, house, etc.. Only good thing is - he doesn't ask me. For any money for himself. I don't know how he manages and I don't ask. Also uses my car. Everything I have sacrificed.. And I regret giving away huge sum of money to him. To all women - no matter what you ppl do and how much you love your Spouse… please don't empty yourself for them. Only your child is your responsibility.. Not the spouse.