I answer this as a senior senior citizen. I lost my wife after 52 years of marriage. This loss causes intense loneliness. As I wrote in a book I Co-authored on using dating sites, “The issue with loneliness is that it can be felt as a fleeting desire for companionship as well as a strong driving need for a relationship. The latter can and will put you into a situation that can end in disappointment. If you have decided you have been alone too long, then you can either hug your cat, or get a grip and move on.
Let me digress for a moment. Believe us when we say loneliness is a powerful driver. Af
I answer this as a senior senior citizen. I lost my wife after 52 years of marriage. This loss causes intense loneliness. As I wrote in a book I Co-authored on using dating sites, “The issue with loneliness is that it can be felt as a fleeting desire for companionship as well as a strong driving need for a relationship. The latter can and will put you into a situation that can end in disappointment. If you have decided you have been alone too long, then you can either hug your cat, or get a grip and move on.
Let me digress for a moment. Believe us when we say loneliness is a powerful driver. After months or years of having some one in your life is, for want of a better term, addicting. Both of us felt this loneliness acutely and in truth is a reason why we made mistakes.”
The way to protect themselves is move slowly and make Due Diligence your best friend.
As we wrote ask your self at least these questions:
Am I really finished grieving my loss? This loss can either be a result of death or divorce.
Am I really looking for a lasting relationship or do I just want sex?
Am I being careful and self protective?
Do I understand that the relationship I seek is something I want-not need?
Am I ready to risk?
Obviously there is a lot more to answering your question but this is a start.
I got curious one night, and I did Google myself. All the search results I found were wrong, except for this 1 site that had EVERYTHING about me.
When I typed my name into TruthFinder, it was a completely different story! It showed my social media accounts, contact details and more - and it was all accurate!
I was SHOCKED how much of my information came up! I can't say I loved it either :-/
I did see a few other sites doing something similar, but TruthFinder was the easiest and gave the most accurate information. I was able to search for nearly anyone in the United States by name, phone number, a
I got curious one night, and I did Google myself. All the search results I found were wrong, except for this 1 site that had EVERYTHING about me.
When I typed my name into TruthFinder, it was a completely different story! It showed my social media accounts, contact details and more - and it was all accurate!
I was SHOCKED how much of my information came up! I can't say I loved it either :-/
I did see a few other sites doing something similar, but TruthFinder was the easiest and gave the most accurate information. I was able to search for nearly anyone in the United States by name, phone number, address, email address.
What did TruthFinder show?
- Full Name, Address, Phone Number
- Age and DOB
- Arrest Records
- Dating Profiles, Social Media, & More!
Who knew the deep web had so much for anyone to see!?!?
For one thing, by being realistic. If you are an out of shape 60-something, 23 year old models are not interested in you. If you are attracting interest from people who look remarkably good, but who live in a different country or a diferent continent, it’s unlikely to be a genuine date.
Luckily, it’spretty easy to weed out the scammers, they actually deliberately make it easy by using dodgy English and illogical stories. “Am an honest man looking for the love of my life. Am an IT consultant but don’t understand Tinder, can we talk on Facebook/email?”
Ask questions. If they say they are local to
For one thing, by being realistic. If you are an out of shape 60-something, 23 year old models are not interested in you. If you are attracting interest from people who look remarkably good, but who live in a different country or a diferent continent, it’s unlikely to be a genuine date.
Luckily, it’spretty easy to weed out the scammers, they actually deliberately make it easy by using dodgy English and illogical stories. “Am an honest man looking for the love of my life. Am an IT consultant but don’t understand Tinder, can we talk on Facebook/email?”
Ask questions. If they say they are local to you, ask something that requires local knowledge.
I find starting a conversation with “What’s the craic?” immediately weeds out all the non Irish.
Arrange to meet as soon as possible. Coffee or a drink in a local cafe or bar is best. Scammers won’t turn up. They will have a sob story about having to rush to a dying relative in hospital and worry about the hospital bill. Yes, they’ll say this even if they are claiming to be in Dublin or London.
I’m over 50, divorced, and my kids are grown, so I decided to try SeniorMatch. It’s been pretty good so far. The site’s easy to use, and it’s nice to connect with people my age who are looking for real connections, not just casual stuff.
It’s not super fast-paced, and some profiles could use more details, but overall, I feel like it’s a solid option for meeting people in the same stage of life. If you’re looking for something meaningful, it’s definitely worth checking out!
I either get very young men who only want sex, and think it is easy to get from an older widow…most of these men are very very cute and I couldn’t have had them if I were their age…or, I get lots and lots of scams…guys or gangs who want to extort every last penny from me. They don’t need to score a lot, because they are talking to many women my age and if everyone gives them even a little, they will score a lot.
There are a few widowers on there who are naive and still in love with their wives, and don’t really want a relationship anyway, so I don’t even know why they are on there…just lonely I
I either get very young men who only want sex, and think it is easy to get from an older widow…most of these men are very very cute and I couldn’t have had them if I were their age…or, I get lots and lots of scams…guys or gangs who want to extort every last penny from me. They don’t need to score a lot, because they are talking to many women my age and if everyone gives them even a little, they will score a lot.
There are a few widowers on there who are naive and still in love with their wives, and don’t really want a relationship anyway, so I don’t even know why they are on there…just lonely I guess. I find them rude, wanting me to fill in for their wives in every way but the real way. They want companionship and sex with no strings attached. Sorry, but if that’s what I wanted, I’d rather go back to the thirty-somethings again. At least the sex would be good. If he’s not offering a full relationship, I’d rather have a shallow one with a young man, than a real one with a widower my age….late sixties/early seventies. They only want a nurse or a purse anyway.
Where do I start?
I’m a huge financial nerd, and have spent an embarrassing amount of time talking to people about their money habits.
Here are the biggest mistakes people are making and how to fix them:
Not having a separate high interest savings account
Having a separate account allows you to see the results of all your hard work and keep your money separate so you're less tempted to spend it.
Plus with rates above 5.00%, the interest you can earn compared to most banks really adds up.
Here is a list of the top savings accounts available today. Deposit $5 before moving on because this is one of th
Where do I start?
I’m a huge financial nerd, and have spent an embarrassing amount of time talking to people about their money habits.
Here are the biggest mistakes people are making and how to fix them:
Not having a separate high interest savings account
Having a separate account allows you to see the results of all your hard work and keep your money separate so you're less tempted to spend it.
Plus with rates above 5.00%, the interest you can earn compared to most banks really adds up.
Here is a list of the top savings accounts available today. Deposit $5 before moving on because this is one of the biggest mistakes and easiest ones to fix.
Overpaying on car insurance
You’ve heard it a million times before, but the average American family still overspends by $417/year on car insurance.
If you’ve been with the same insurer for years, chances are you are one of them.
Pull up Coverage.com, a free site that will compare prices for you, answer the questions on the page, and it will show you how much you could be saving.
That’s it. You’ll likely be saving a bunch of money. Here’s a link to give it a try.
Consistently being in debt
If you’ve got $10K+ in debt (credit cards…medical bills…anything really) you could use a debt relief program and potentially reduce by over 20%.
Here’s how to see if you qualify:
Head over to this Debt Relief comparison website here, then simply answer the questions to see if you qualify.
It’s as simple as that. You’ll likely end up paying less than you owed before and you could be debt free in as little as 2 years.
Missing out on free money to invest
It’s no secret that millionaires love investing, but for the rest of us, it can seem out of reach.
Times have changed. There are a number of investing platforms that will give you a bonus to open an account and get started. All you have to do is open the account and invest at least $25, and you could get up to $1000 in bonus.
Pretty sweet deal right? Here is a link to some of the best options.
Having bad credit
A low credit score can come back to bite you in so many ways in the future.
From that next rental application to getting approved for any type of loan or credit card, if you have a bad history with credit, the good news is you can fix it.
Head over to BankRate.com and answer a few questions to see if you qualify. It only takes a few minutes and could save you from a major upset down the line.
How to get started
Hope this helps! Here are the links to get started:
Have a separate savings account
Stop overpaying for car insurance
Finally get out of debt
Start investing with a free bonus
Fix your credit
Match lets your select an age range of men you are interested in. You can also search for people and find people that way that do not show up as matches. I am 54. I am dating a man from match. It took me five months and talking to many who lied and were cat fish to find him and he went through the same thing. If you start talking to someone you think you like, ask to meet him in a public place sooner rather than later. That way you do not waste months talking to someone who is not real. Google cell phone numbers before meeting. One guy I was talking to was a registered sex offender. Feel free
Match lets your select an age range of men you are interested in. You can also search for people and find people that way that do not show up as matches. I am 54. I am dating a man from match. It took me five months and talking to many who lied and were cat fish to find him and he went through the same thing. If you start talking to someone you think you like, ask to meet him in a public place sooner rather than later. That way you do not waste months talking to someone who is not real. Google cell phone numbers before meeting. One guy I was talking to was a registered sex offender. Feel free to message me with questions about match. I also met my late fiance' on match in 2005. I was also on eharmony and dated someone from there but it didn't work out.
I'm not a senior woman myself, but someone close to me who lost her partner 3 years ago has been trying senior dating sites. She often says she doesn't want to date again, but sometimes feels lonely, so she registered an account on SeniorMatch. The other day, she mentioned meeting a man who seemed healthy and had a great sense of humor. She said she wanted to keep talking to him and see where it goes.
I think it can be challenging for older people to find a new partner, but I'm truly happy for her and wish her the best. After all, no one wants to spend the rest of their life alone. It's heartwa
I'm not a senior woman myself, but someone close to me who lost her partner 3 years ago has been trying senior dating sites. She often says she doesn't want to date again, but sometimes feels lonely, so she registered an account on SeniorMatch. The other day, she mentioned meeting a man who seemed healthy and had a great sense of humor. She said she wanted to keep talking to him and see where it goes.
I think it can be challenging for older people to find a new partner, but I'm truly happy for her and wish her the best. After all, no one wants to spend the rest of their life alone. It's heartwarming to see her taking steps to find companionship. While the process might not be easy, it's inspiring to see her open herself up to new possibilities. I hope she finds the connection she's looking for, whether it's a deep friendship or a romantic relationship. Everyone deserves a chance at happiness, regardless of age.
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Safe for NO ONE
From my research, Plenty of Fish has a solid demographic in that age range.
USER BASE: POF’s user base is the oldest crowd on average and is heaviest in the 45-65 ranges. Audience Insights does show 57% women interested in the app though.
NOTABLE FEATURES: The wild west of dating sites with lots of freedoms for very little cost.
POTENTIAL DRAWBACKS: Plenty of freedoms could also mean plenty of bots.
THE VERDICT: Good if you’re older and ready to put the work into messaging enough women to get the response rate you desire. Furthermore, there seems to be drastically fewer men in the under 35 range t
From my research, Plenty of Fish has a solid demographic in that age range.
USER BASE: POF’s user base is the oldest crowd on average and is heaviest in the 45-65 ranges. Audience Insights does show 57% women interested in the app though.
NOTABLE FEATURES: The wild west of dating sites with lots of freedoms for very little cost.
POTENTIAL DRAWBACKS: Plenty of freedoms could also mean plenty of bots.
THE VERDICT: Good if you’re older and ready to put the work into messaging enough women to get the response rate you desire. Furthermore, there seems to be drastically fewer men in the under 35 range than women. It could be a goldmine, or a bust.
I've tried several senior dating sites, I recommend OlderWomenDating.biz . Been using it for a while and it's pretty good. The best part is they make everyone do video verification, so you know you're talking to real people, not fake profiles. Makes a big difference compared to other dating sites I've tried.
I do think there are so many fake profiles and scammers on dating sites.
- Find the right site(s) that work for you. Trying to meet someone on Tinder probably won’t work. Try Ourtime, Plenty of Fish, Silver Singles and or Match.
- Have nice photos. At least one that shows your face and one that shows your full body. Think about having a pro take photos.
- Don’t limit yourself any more than you have to. Profiles that have long lists of people who should not respond. I am sort of turned off by profiles that go:, no one over 20 miles, college graduates only, no one shorter than 6 feet, no smokers, no one who voted for Trump, etc, etc, They strike me as someone who would be a
- Find the right site(s) that work for you. Trying to meet someone on Tinder probably won’t work. Try Ourtime, Plenty of Fish, Silver Singles and or Match.
- Have nice photos. At least one that shows your face and one that shows your full body. Think about having a pro take photos.
- Don’t limit yourself any more than you have to. Profiles that have long lists of people who should not respond. I am sort of turned off by profiles that go:, no one over 20 miles, college graduates only, no one shorter than 6 feet, no smokers, no one who voted for Trump, etc, etc, They strike me as someone who would be a PITA.
- Be active in contacting people you might be interested in.
- Spell check your profile info. Typo’s can make you seem stupid. A well written profile can help a lot.
A couple of years ago I saw a headline on MSN that read something like “12 tips for great success on dating sites. I thought oh, great I may get some good ideas. It was the stupidest thing I ever saw and would do more harm that good, They went something like 1. Lie about your age, 2, Photoshop your photos or use old photos. 3 Lie about your income. 4. Lie about your education. I think that is terrible advice. It may get you some first dates you would not get otherwise but the real you will prevail and you will just end up wasting time and disappointing yourself and the person you meet. Being hones pays.
No dating site is safe from scammers. People over 70 would be even more vulnerable as they generally know less about online in general. We all need to educate ourselves on the tactics of romance scamming.
The two largest dating sites in the 50+ age group are actually both owned by Match. They are http://Ourtime.com and http://Seniorpeoplemeet.com. Based on the experiences of many of my clients, there is one main difference between the two sites. Here is what they have told me:
- Ourtime is for baby boomers who don’t feel like senior citizens, but still don’t want to be on a dating site filled with people in their 20’s - 40’s.
- Seniorpeoplemeet is for the people over 50 that think of themselves as senior citizens. My clients have told me that people on this site tend to be less active in their lives
The two largest dating sites in the 50+ age group are actually both owned by Match. They are http://Ourtime.com and http://Seniorpeoplemeet.com. Based on the experiences of many of my clients, there is one main difference between the two sites. Here is what they have told me:
- Ourtime is for baby boomers who don’t feel like senior citizens, but still don’t want to be on a dating site filled with people in their 20’s - 40’s.
- Seniorpeoplemeet is for the people over 50 that think of themselves as senior citizens. My clients have told me that people on this site tend to be less active in their lives and have a generally “older” feel.
One that doesn’t exist
I’m not a senior but it more of a hassle to weed out the scams and to get into someone only to be hit with a charge that I s always have to say if I got to pay I don’t deserve it. We hook up you’ll want to pay me
Beware, scammers like to hang out on dating sites. They will have a dating profile that tells you they are someone they are not, including a fake profile pic. Be especially wary if the pic is of an very attractive person who doesn’t seem to fit the profile age. Since age is one of the pieces of profile information you are typically asked to include in your application to the site, a scammer can easily pick out prime looking targets. So some advice if you are a senior and are using dating sites (nothing wrong with keeping the blood moving seniors):
- Keep your profile information to the bare minim
Beware, scammers like to hang out on dating sites. They will have a dating profile that tells you they are someone they are not, including a fake profile pic. Be especially wary if the pic is of an very attractive person who doesn’t seem to fit the profile age. Since age is one of the pieces of profile information you are typically asked to include in your application to the site, a scammer can easily pick out prime looking targets. So some advice if you are a senior and are using dating sites (nothing wrong with keeping the blood moving seniors):
- Keep your profile information to the bare minimum. You can always add if you don’t get many likes.
- Don’t communicate with them outside of the site message services until you feel very comfortable with the person you have been matched with. Ask for and verify their out of site connection numbers before supplying your own,
- Avoid anyone who may say they are serving in the military based overseas. This is probably a big lie and these are your famous “romance scammers” often.
- When you do make off site connections and feel comfortable enough to meet that person, do so ASAP (hey you’re a senior and the clock is running down).
Most people on these senior dating site are genuine, some a little too genuine (if you get my drift). Be wise, be aware, have fun, and be safe!
Q: What is the difference between a dating app for seniors and a dating site for seniors?
A: The subject matter, “Seniors” is not relevant.
The real question is the difference between an “app” and a “site”.
An “app” is short for “application” and is software installed directly to a computer. For instance, “Firefox” is an application, and is installed to your computer, tablet, phone, etc.
TYPICALLY, when someone refers to an “App”, they are meaning this in the context of an application that gets installed to a phone.
With this in mind, a “dating app” is an application that is installed directly to y
Q: What is the difference between a dating app for seniors and a dating site for seniors?
A: The subject matter, “Seniors” is not relevant.
The real question is the difference between an “app” and a “site”.
An “app” is short for “application” and is software installed directly to a computer. For instance, “Firefox” is an application, and is installed to your computer, tablet, phone, etc.
TYPICALLY, when someone refers to an “App”, they are meaning this in the context of an application that gets installed to a phone.
With this in mind, a “dating app” is an application that is installed directly to your phone, usually from a centralized application repository provided by either Google or Apple.
A dating SITE is simply a website, that is for dating. And if it is for Seniors, it is a dating site for seniors. This means that the contents, information, etc are accessed via a web browser (which is an app).
Choosing the right senior dating site is essential as these days one has to be safe.
This is the reason that I suggest MeetOutside Video Dating Site for the senior singles. If you want to keep avoid card usage at the time of registration without checking out the website features, then this is the dating site to consider.
It has lots of senior men and women from the USA so you will find the right set of individuals.
There is video and audio calls along with text. Sending a message to the one you like is always possible.
Hi,
Of Course, there are several dating sites are available for seniors.
Dating at a young age is lots of fun and energy but dating at the age of ’50s, 60’s it is different. Dating is not just for young people but also for senior people. Senior dating is also a lot of fun if you do it right manner, but it will take time to get a good partner for senior people in the olden days. But Present days there are a lot of online senior dating sites are available for senior people.
Most popular and commonly used senior dating sites are
- Senior Match
- Our Time
- eHarmony
- Senior Friends Date
- Silver Singles
- Elite Singl
Hi,
Of Course, there are several dating sites are available for seniors.
Dating at a young age is lots of fun and energy but dating at the age of ’50s, 60’s it is different. Dating is not just for young people but also for senior people. Senior dating is also a lot of fun if you do it right manner, but it will take time to get a good partner for senior people in the olden days. But Present days there are a lot of online senior dating sites are available for senior people.
Most popular and commonly used senior dating sites are
- Senior Match
- Our Time
- eHarmony
- Senior Friends Date
- Silver Singles
- Elite Singles
It’s never too late to choose the best senior dating site to get a partner. I suggest Senior Friends Date because it is a free senior online dating site.
Hope this information is useful,
Thanks.
If you want casual sex, Tinder is your go to. Much more effective than any “adult” site.
If you want something serious, I’d probably look at Bumble.
Don’t do OkCupid, I just finished two months of a paid account with several boosts looking for a real, loving relationship and got absolutely nowhere. Most of my matches were women who were already married. Some had open relationships, others were cheating due to a lack of sex in their marriage.
Avoid all the senior sites until you are well-past 60, as the demographics are heavily skewed for those who are already retired and pushing 70+.
Try Plenty of Fish. Reason is you can email to others for free with no upgraded membership required.
And I would like to add:
If you are attracted to older men - TELL THEM! We really don't wish to appear as perv's or creepy if we were to approach you.
If you are attracted to mature, witty, good looking, really intelligent men great! As I am one of those!
Just sayin’
I’d think it would be because the typical 90 year old is:-
- Not particularly tech literate
- Old fashioned enough to think online dating to be a bit disreputable
- Kind of rare (less than 5% of the total population).
- Not particularly mobile.
So the target demographic is unable and/or unwilling to use the site, if they do find a match they will probably be unable to meet up in person.
I tried to get my Mum (85) into online dating, we set up a profile on POF, but the pickings were very slim and she was rather of the opinion that it was unfair to get in to a relationship when one of the parties were likely
I’d think it would be because the typical 90 year old is:-
- Not particularly tech literate
- Old fashioned enough to think online dating to be a bit disreputable
- Kind of rare (less than 5% of the total population).
- Not particularly mobile.
So the target demographic is unable and/or unwilling to use the site, if they do find a match they will probably be unable to meet up in person.
I tried to get my Mum (85) into online dating, we set up a profile on POF, but the pickings were very slim and she was rather of the opinion that it was unfair to get in to a relationship when one of the parties were likely to die soon (after she was widowed she had already found someone (offline) and lost them a couple of years later).
I use cheap or free dating sites. The only one I pay for is SilverDaddies, whose paid version is about a buck a week. I also use Grindr, BiggerCity, and Adam4Adam. I used to use Growlr, till they shut me off for soliciting (debatable).
I mostly look for guys younger than me — 30–60 is a good range (I'm 73 going on 74). My success rate varies where I live. The more gays in the neighborhood, the better. I'm very clear about what I want and what I look like and usually willing to drop trou and get it on with qualified individuals.
For older women, you can check out match, okcupid, plenty of fish. For casual dating POF is the place even though 90% say otherwise. Match and eharmony are mainly relationship minded women, although the casual ones can be found by decyphering their profile.
If they're gay men, Silverdaddies. For older men and the young ones who admire them.
Nowadays, there are more and more dating sites aimed specifically at seniors. Whilst many typically ‘younger’ sites such as Match™ | Meet Someone New and Zoosk do have sections specifically for over 50s, there are some great sites only for the older generation, which I’d highly recommend if you’re looking to find the perfect match.
These sites are not only important for attracting the right type of sign ups (i.e. local people in the same age group and with similar interests), but for being designed in a way that is user-friendly to the older generation. This means easy sign-ups, easy-to-read Te
Nowadays, there are more and more dating sites aimed specifically at seniors. Whilst many typically ‘younger’ sites such as Match™ | Meet Someone New and Zoosk do have sections specifically for over 50s, there are some great sites only for the older generation, which I’d highly recommend if you’re looking to find the perfect match.
These sites are not only important for attracting the right type of sign ups (i.e. local people in the same age group and with similar interests), but for being designed in a way that is user-friendly to the older generation. This means easy sign-ups, easy-to-read Terms and Conditions, and more security to protect the user from being scammed or catfished. You would hope that this is less likely with senior dating anyway, but better safe than sorry!
One such site is Mature dating site for singles over 50 - this site has been designed with over 50’s singles in mind. The sign-up is simple and the interface is really nice and easy to understand. It’s not so simple that it’s patronising, just really nice to look at and with no confusion.
Another is SilverSingles | The Exclusive Dating Site for 50+ Singles - again, specifically aimed at senior dating, rather than catering to all ages.
Here is a really great little article on senior dating sites: Best Senior Dating Sites in 2020 | Lifestyle and Romance Tips | Lifeline24 - it lists a few of the best, with some pros and cons to consider for each. There’s also tips on how to stay safe when dating online.
Anyone who is slim build and not terribly fit/strong regardless of age/sex is advised to be sensible about where they meet people - choose a public space rather than a dimly lit Park or a out of the way pub up an alleyway, no matter how nice that pub looks in daytime, you do not want to invite trouble into your life as some people get drunk BEFORE they meet you for a “Date/social drink”.
Who & what people are looking for on dating sites varies enormously from people who want to run wild & free and find a partner who also likes Extreme Sports, to someone who might be older (or injured/born disab
Anyone who is slim build and not terribly fit/strong regardless of age/sex is advised to be sensible about where they meet people - choose a public space rather than a dimly lit Park or a out of the way pub up an alleyway, no matter how nice that pub looks in daytime, you do not want to invite trouble into your life as some people get drunk BEFORE they meet you for a “Date/social drink”.
Who & what people are looking for on dating sites varies enormously from people who want to run wild & free and find a partner who also likes Extreme Sports, to someone who might be older (or injured/born disabled) who’s looking for a more sedentary companion. Society is infested with people who practise deception so all are advied to do everything they can to establish the NATURE of whoever they meet. My advice is that you pay a lot of attention to how much the person you meet, drinks, and especially pay attention if they’re texting anyone else or taking more than one phone call during your Date. I once met up with someone who spent the entire time replying to texts, it wasn’t exactly an enjoyable “date” - years later I discovered that this individual or their supposedly Later Met partner had actually abused my home address by setting up a Life Insurance policy in their name claiming them to own/occupy MY home! (This was proven to me face to face by a member of Bank Staff to whom I shall be eternally grateful for proving to me that I wasn’t ‘going mad’, and I wasn’t wrong); What the person had been doing was sending feedback to a 3rd party that I was till in the pub, presumably the texts were going to the person I later found out had robbed her employer of £25,000 Takings before the two of them emigrated to the USA in presumably financed by the Fraud Proceeds of a Life Insurance Payout after they faked the death of one or other of them. (You’ve probably guessed that I stopped dating a long time ago!) Older people using dating sites can be more prone to this type of Fake Date scenario, and younger people might be more prone to being overcome by a drunkard who loses control of themself. I’d advise anyone to take a friend with them if they can who can sit/stand at a discreet distance on the first Date & help make sure nothing untoward happens.
Whatever you do - do NOT go to someone’s house (or to a party at their friend’s house) until you’ve met and chatted with someone several times. Make sure your phone is charged before you go out and has credit allowing you to make at least half a dozen calls. Tell your family members or close friendswhere you’re going out to and when you’ll be back. Websites will usually issue similar Good Practice advise to people regardless of their age/Dating aims.
The general consensus is Match. This does NOT mean it will be the best for you, just the general consensus.
Match skews older and as such, tends to skew a little more conservative. Trump supporters love it, as it as a much higher percentage of conservative men/women that other sites.
Tinder is one of the worst, one key reason is 55 and older are all one giant age group, so 55–75 are all treated as the same age in Tinder. This can make dating as a 50-something on Tinder very clumsy. Tinder does not mind, they are clearly youth focused and their feature set focused on capturing more 20-somethings.
The general consensus is Match. This does NOT mean it will be the best for you, just the general consensus.
Match skews older and as such, tends to skew a little more conservative. Trump supporters love it, as it as a much higher percentage of conservative men/women that other sites.
Tinder is one of the worst, one key reason is 55 and older are all one giant age group, so 55–75 are all treated as the same age in Tinder. This can make dating as a 50-something on Tinder very clumsy. Tinder does not mind, they are clearly youth focused and their feature set focused on capturing more 20-somethings.
Please be advised your experience will vary. There’s a lot of luck involved in online dating, there’s a lot of personal preferences, lifestyles, cultural influences that are going to adjust your own experience compared to the “norm”.
Dating app, Senior or otherwise is on mobile while dating site is on the web(www.).
Absolutely! This is a great question, and one I think more people should ask.
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Dating later in life can feel like a whole different ballgame, but the good news is there are plenty of platforms designed specifically for seniors. Let me share what I’ve learned over the years, both from personal experience and through helping my mom navigate the world of online dating after my dad passed away.
Why Senior-Specific Dating Sites?
When my mom first expressed an interest in dating again, she was hesitant about joining "mainstream" apps. She felt out of place on platforms domin
Absolutely! This is a great question, and one I think more people should ask.
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Dating later in life can feel like a whole different ballgame, but the good news is there are plenty of platforms designed specifically for seniors. Let me share what I’ve learned over the years, both from personal experience and through helping my mom navigate the world of online dating after my dad passed away.
Why Senior-Specific Dating Sites?
When my mom first expressed an interest in dating again, she was hesitant about joining "mainstream" apps. She felt out of place on platforms dominated by younger users, and honestly, I don't blame her. Many of those apps are geared toward quick connections, not meaningful relationships, which is what most seniors are looking for. Senior-specific sites, on the other hand, are tailored for people in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, focusing more on compatibility, shared values, and often long-term partnerships.
My Personal Journey Helping My Mom
I remember sitting down with my mom one Sunday afternoon, laptop in hand, determined to find the best platform for her. We laughed at some of the overly enthusiastic profiles (“Loves skydiving and salsa dancing—call me!”), but it was clear that many seniors, like her, were serious about finding companionship. What struck me the most was how much these sites cater to seniors' unique needs. Profiles often focus on life experiences rather than flashy photos, and there’s an emphasis on quality over quantity.
One time, we came across a gentleman whose profile read, “Looking for someone to share my morning walks and evening wine.” My mom said, “Now that’s my speed!” And while it didn’t work out with him, it showed us that these platforms really understand their audience.
What to Expect on Senior Dating Sites
Senior-focused dating sites prioritize simplicity. Many older adults aren’t as tech-savvy as younger generations, so the interfaces are straightforward and easy to navigate. Here are some things you’ll often find:
- Detailed Profiles: Unlike mainstream apps where swiping rules, these sites encourage users to write thoughtful bios. It's less about quick decisions and more about genuine connection.
- Compatibility Features: Many platforms offer quizzes to match users based on shared interests, values, and even lifestyle habits.
- Community Atmosphere: Some sites have forums or blogs where users can share advice or simply connect on a more casual level.
Tips for Navigating Senior Dating Sites
If you or someone you know is considering joining one of these platforms, here are a few tips:
- Take Time with Your Profile: A well-thought-out profile makes a huge difference. Highlight your hobbies, what you’re passionate about, and what you’re looking for in a partner.
- Stay Safe: While most senior dating sites are reputable, always exercise caution. My mom once received a message that seemed too good to be true—and it was. Trust your instincts, and never share personal or financial information too soon.
- Be Open-Minded: Some people might have very different life experiences or perspectives. That’s not necessarily a bad thing; it can lead to some wonderful conversations!
Anecdotes and Lessons
Here’s a funny (and heartwarming) story: My mom ended up meeting someone who shared her love of classic movies. Their first conversation revolved around Casablanca and who could quote more lines. They’ve been together for three years now, and it’s proof that love and connection truly have no age limit.
Another friend of mine, who’s in her late 60s, joined a senior dating site not expecting much. To her surprise, she met a widower who shared her love of gardening. Their first date was at a local botanical garden, and now they spend weekends tending to a shared plot at their community garden.
Challenges Seniors May Face
Of course, it’s not all smooth sailing. Some seniors feel nervous about diving into the online dating world, especially if it’s their first time. Others worry about rejection or not finding someone compatible. But in my experience, the key is patience and persistence. My mom didn’t meet her partner overnight—it took a few months of chatting and a couple of dud dates—but the journey was worth it.
Senior-specific dating sites are fantastic for anyone looking to form meaningful connections later in life. They cater to the unique challenges and desires of older adults while creating a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you’re helping a parent, friend, or considering it for yourself, I can’t recommend these platforms enough.
As I always say to my mom and her friends: "It’s never too late for a new beginning." If you’re willing to put yourself out there, even just a little, you might be surprised by the connections you make. After all, everyone deserves a chance at love—no matter their age.
Hopefully, this helps anyone considering joining a senior dating site. Remember, it’s all about finding what feels right for you!
You can find the right one on any sites- twitter, facebook, tumblr, tinder and more but i wouldn’t recommend dating sites. A lot of people there are scammers or dangerous. Better safe, than sorry.
Look for a thematic group of your hobbys, i think it’s the best place.
Based on my personal experience and research, I would recommend a few of the top dating sites for people over 50:
Doulike - While not strictly for 50+ dating, DoULike works very well for singles returning to dating later in life thanks to its personality-based matching system. They use one of the most extensive compatibility assessments of any major dating site to identify your traits and preferences for the highest quality matches with long-term potential.
OurTime - This site is owned by Match Group, so it has the same extensive user base and matching algorithms that have made Match Start Somet
Based on my personal experience and research, I would recommend a few of the top dating sites for people over 50:
Doulike - While not strictly for 50+ dating, DoULike works very well for singles returning to dating later in life thanks to its personality-based matching system. They use one of the most extensive compatibility assessments of any major dating site to identify your traits and preferences for the highest quality matches with long-term potential.
OurTime - This site is owned by Match Group, so it has the same extensive user base and matching algorithms that have made Match Start Something Great successful. However, OurTime is focused exclusively on users aged 50+ looking for dates in their age range. It's user-friendly, simple to set up a profile, and has lots of helpful search filters by age, location, interests, etc. They also host local singles events specifically for the 50+ crowd.
SilverSingles - SilverSingles has a reputation for attracting high-quality users who are educated professionals looking for meaningful connections. There is an extensive sign-up questionnaire that ensures matches have similar core values/lifestyles for better compatibility. The site verifies all users manually too, so you know profiles are legitimate. They have smartphone apps, user blog/magazine, and experienced matchmakers on staff.
EliteSingles - This site draws a more serious, career-oriented demographic of mature singles looking for lasting love. User profiles tend to include a high level of detail to find truly compatible matches. EliteSingles also restricts its membership base to those 30+ only with an emphasis on members with higher education and income levels. Great for discerning singles.
I hope these give you a good starting point to find over 50 dating sites that work for you! Let me know if you have any other questions.