Very good question! I'm 67, and my spouse died 2 and half year ago after 33 years marriage. I had lived in deep depression for a year, but somehow (helped by psichologists, psichiatrists) now I feel better, got my pills. I know very well my personal, intim problems, I have diabetes, high blood pressure, and I'm a little bit fat, but I have no problems with the on-line datings. I don't want much younger ones, but I can tolerate if a lady is a little bit older than me. I don't pay for love. I'm honest and I try to be very nice, and clever, and I have them laughed, I prefer those ladies who are educated, moreover those ones who have their job, calling, passionate hobby (except solitaires). I like to laugh, so my "girlfriends" don't feel bothered by me usually. We know our age, but nothing better than to have an interesting talk, a usefull debate, to talk about great questions (politics, God, people, moral, bad government, next elections) to go to an exhibition, theatre, to listen to music together, and so on. Given our Past mutual, we know the same old jokes, our language (the style, the slang) is mutual, we can remember the most interesting events from the last decades, we compare our fate, our parents, their education habits, we advise each other what to watch on You Tube. Honey, do you remeber when.... Would you mind watching on You Tube... How interesting lecture was held on TED... Have you red this book?.... And let me confess, meanwhile our libido have been already not so strong, (but there are elderly ladies with stronger libido, then those horribile teenagers have, as far as I can remember), we know that the love is very important. Be honest, be nice, the ladies are forever ladies, and they love to be praised, to be loved, and they love the men of good taste, they don't want to quarell. They would like to feel that they are in safety by a man. (Usually a not too succesfull connection ends within two or three months.) Of course in this age nobody wants to give her or his indepency up, it is not necessary to move in a mutual flat, forbidden to ask for that, no need to meet every day, nobody wants to become a nurse, a doctor, a psichologist, a social worker in an intim connection, and as regards money the personal secrets must be kept (income, bank accuunt, debts), the necessary delicacy and the honesty are the most important questions. The best situation, when a lady and a man are on the same living standard, they have the same or similar taste, and they are happy to communicate each other, they have their nice evenings, and no need to watch those nasty, boring tv programs, soap operas, and last but not least a great adventage for a man, if he can cook well. What a great feeling, when I cook something new, and my she-friend seat there, and I tell her how to create a good dish, which is new for her. (No need to infrom her, that I have learned it the day before yesterday from a book.) Be optimistic, and you will find your lady when the previous one leaves.
And a few very important warning! Every lady has her close friends, usually ladies from the same age, same culture, same social status, don't want to know them, don't want to organise evenings, parties for them, but try to know what do they think on you, becouse your lady tell everything to them from you. Than valuate her answer! It is a good mirror! (The same regards to her family. By the way the more grandchildren they have the worst.) Finally: love her, and love her cat or dog! But don't wait that she will love your cat or dog, croco or elephant. No, you have no right, I'm far from perfect. For example here is my poor English.

In youth I was managing a volcano flow of hormones and I either had or was constantly searching for a partner. I was horny all the time and I was a ROMANTIC. I was going to find HIM and the idea was that we where going too live happily ever after and boff ourself well into senility, which at the time I reckoned to hit people at about forty. My expectations where set pretty high and my affairs tended to torch and burn after a year or so. Like a lot of middle class kids I was often attracted to freaks, druggies, wierdos, and all manner of bohemian marginalia. Anything or anyone to burn off the milquetoast sameness of the tiny world I was raised in. Being a freak, druggie, and wierdo myself (and a good looking one to boot) offers where plentiful.

Eventually I decided that it was time to get serious. Well actually it was time to get serious in some ways but perhaps lighten up in others. The passion and vigor that defined my twenties was starting to feel decadent and unwholesome in the early morning light of thirty. So I made a conscious choice to change the type of men I dated. I avoided the relentlessly cynical, fast talking, "art-fag" extrovert with his raccoon eyes, black clothing and methamphetamine-dusted-but-all-too-sexy constantly flared nostrils, and made a play for shy, even calm men. I was partnered within a year.

The guy I fell for was strong and balanced and taught me about domestic life. I chose him because he calmed me. I also chose him because it was time to chose somebody. He was not on fire for the arts or in a hurry to hurl his body under the brutal wheel of poetry but rather the son of a farmer who played the piano and had a fondness for show tunes. Unlike the often tortured, self-involved souls who had tented my pants in the past, this one actually smiled a lot. Not only that, he didn't need medication to do it.

Most people who have lived with someone will probably agree that it's a hard thing to do. I found it to be really hard but worth it. I did it for ten years until my early forties - then we broke up.

This is not easy to admit but my forties where characterized by a rising anxiety to be partnered again. I didn't recognize it at the time, but I wasn't dating so much as shopping for a husband. I had a tendency to interview people rather than meet them. I wish I had had David Hood's self awareness and had put some of that energy into myself, but the compulsive aspect of my nature was at play and time was flying. By fifty I crashed into the mother of all age-related depression.

Now at 53 I feel somewhat o.k. I have an appreciation for being single but am open to other possibilities. I get lonely but its manageable.

Today if I met a guy that I was interested in it would most likely be because he had a keen but compassionate sense of humor. That's really about it. At this point I think of a relationship as being built on a sensibility you share and cultivate rather than a collection of similar interests or even values. Much of the scrutiny I once applied to people seems funny to me now. I know what works and doesn't work for me, but I also know that connection happens in the strangest of places. And I am sure that no internet checklist is going to get me any closer to it. The basis on which I once rejected or embraced romantic partners was a product of idealistic youth - and a product of the manna of possibilities that youth can offer. That was fine for then. I was young and wanted the world. Now I think it would be nice to have someone to watch TV with.

Companionship is profoundly important for seniors for several reasons.

As we grow older, many of our friends and loved ones naturally pass on. This can leave seniors feeling lonely and isolated if they don't have companionship. Good company provides stimulation through conversation and shared activities, lifting the spirits and preventing depression. It also gives seniors a sense of purpose - having someone to talk to and do things with makes life feel more meaningful.

Additionally, companionship plays a practical role for seniors. Having people to socialize with allows seniors to get out of the house more often for events and appointments. Companions can also assist with errands, transportation, caregiving, and moral support during difficult times. Seniors with strong social connections tend to be healthier and live longer.

On a deeper level, companionship feeds the human need for belonging. As spiritual beings having a human experience, we all yearn for closeness and community. In the later stages of life when career and familial roles shift, companionship helps seniors continue to feel valued and included. The comfort of intimate friendships becomes increasingly precious with age.

So in many dimensions, companionship is a vital nutrient for the soul. From reducing isolation to improving physical and mental health, good company benefits seniors both practically and spiritually. As one grows in wisdom, and the body becomes more frail, the urge for companionship only intensifies as we prepare for our soul's next great adventure.

Companionship services for seniors can include:

Having an animal to keep them company

Going to elderly senior citizem meetings and having socialization

Having visitors such as family, friends outside the family or someone close they know.

Having outgoings and going places — shopping, being taken out to eat or brought back food in bags or their favorite sandwiches — Mc Donalfs cheeseburger, etc or something soft they can eat without choking on if they have difficulty swallowing, get them foods that are easier to pudding,swallow pudding, jellos, banana pudding, pies, etc.

Helping with housekeeping from people they may or may not know, things they may have difficulty with motor skill wise if they cannot do it on their own from aches and pains.

Help getting to dr appointments, vision appointments, and dental appointments if they complain of teeth pain. Maybe a hearing test if they have difficulty hearing or anything like that.

Sometimes as an elderly person having someone to sing to them a song, watch a movie with them or doing things they enjoy may help make a bond stronger. Listen to them if they need someone to talk to. If they have questions, answer any questions and reassure them of fears they may have or disappointments if they are unable to do certain things anymore, make them feel uplifted regardless, and smile. Anything you do from the heart for an elderly person is the thought that counts and that's all that matters.

Just having someone there matters, as some dont have family that is their own. Buy them gifts they may enjoy — cozy PJ pants, socks to keep their feet warm, blankets, a stuffed animal or comfort items for elderly that may have aches and pains and things that may calm them like anyone else! Just be there! :)

My father recently passed away at 72 and I miss him… :(

I joined match when I moved to NYC at age 23. I received between 10-20 messages everyday (usually on the higher end of that spectrum), so I had a lot of potential mates. I got into a relationship with one guy I really hit it off with. We've since broken up, and I've moved to LA (I'm 26 now). I am on OKC now and I get less than 10 messages per day. Of those messages received, there has been probably less than 1% that I would consider being friends/acquaintances with. I wouldn't consider dating any of them.

On Match, in NYC, at age 23, there were probably at least 10 guys out of about a thousand+ who messaged me (aggregate) that I would like to date. I would have been friends/acquaintances with many more, if I had time. So basically, I don't know if I've become less attractive, or if guys have become worse, or if there are just too many variables, or all of the above... either way, it kinda sucks!

In terms of how I approach it, my standards have gotten way lower. I read every message (almost - maybe I skip the really long ones) just hoping (and giving the benefit of the doubt) that it's a thoughtful message. Before I would only open about 10% of them and I would read them almost looking for something wrong so I wouldn't have to reply because I didn't have time. I also have a little more time now. But honestly, now I would GLADLY date any of the guys I've friendzoned in the past, unfortunately though even finding someone friendzone-worthy has become very difficult!

To clarify, I used to friendzone guys who were younger than me, not particularly distinguished in their careers, not particularly ambitious/curious/funny, or just guys that I didn't have time for because I was dating other "hotter" guys. Now I would be happy to date anyone who won't cheat on me and has even an inkling of chemistry with me.

It's better than ever that people over 60 are looking for love. With the Internet, you can meet mature singles anywhere in the world! There are many online dating sites for older people to choose from. There are so many online dating sites for seniors to choose from.

Popular dating services for the elderly range from the mainstream, such as Match and eHarmony, to niche sites such as Silver Singles, which specializes in people over 50.

eHarmony is the best dating site for people over 50 because their unique matching technology is based on scientific research. It uses more than 20 compatibility dimensions to narrow down matches -- more than any other online dating site.

You can also try Hookoo. it's a highly advanced dating site for people of all ages. There are a lot of things to love about this site and a lot of reasons for people to choose it over and over again.

Absolutely! This is a great question, and one I think more people should ask.

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Dating later in life can feel like a whole different ballgame, but the good news is there are plenty of platforms designed specifically for seniors. Let me share what I’ve learned over the years, both from personal experience and through helping my mom navigate the world of online dating after my dad passed away.

Why Senior-Specific Dating Sites?

When my mom first expressed an interest in dating again, she was hesitant about joining "mainstream" apps. She felt out of place on platforms dominated by younger users, and honestly, I don't blame her. Many of those apps are geared toward quick connections, not meaningful relationships, which is what most seniors are looking for. Senior-specific sites, on the other hand, are tailored for people in their 50s, 60s, and beyond, focusing more on compatibility, shared values, and often long-term partnerships.

My Personal Journey Helping My Mom

I remember sitting down with my mom one Sunday afternoon, laptop in hand, determined to find the best platform for her. We laughed at some of the overly enthusiastic profiles (“Loves skydiving and salsa dancing—call me!”), but it was clear that many seniors, like her, were serious about finding companionship. What struck me the most was how much these sites cater to seniors' unique needs. Profiles often focus on life experiences rather than flashy photos, and there’s an emphasis on quality over quantity.

One time, we came across a gentleman whose profile read, “Looking for someone to share my morning walks and evening wine.” My mom said, “Now that’s my speed!” And while it didn’t work out with him, it showed us that these platforms really understand their audience.

What to Expect on Senior Dating Sites

Senior-focused dating sites prioritize simplicity. Many older adults aren’t as tech-savvy as younger generations, so the interfaces are straightforward and easy to navigate. Here are some things you’ll often find:

1. Detailed Profiles: Unlike mainstream apps where swiping rules, these sites encourage users to write thoughtful bios. It's less about quick decisions and more about genuine connection.
2. Compatibility Features: Many platforms offer quizzes to match users based on shared interests, values, and even lifestyle habits.
3. Community Atmosphere: Some sites have forums or blogs where users can share advice or simply connect on a more casual level.

Tips for Navigating Senior Dating Sites

If you or someone you know is considering joining one of these platforms, here are a few tips:

1. Take Time with Your Profile: A well-thought-out profile makes a huge difference. Highlight your hobbies, what you’re passionate about, and what you’re looking for in a partner.
2. Stay Safe: While most senior dating sites are reputable, always exercise caution. My mom once received a message that seemed too good to be true—and it was. Trust your instincts, and never share personal or financial information too soon.
3. Be Open-Minded: Some people might have very different life experiences or perspectives. That’s not necessarily a bad thing; it can lead to some wonderful conversations!

Anecdotes and Lessons

Here’s a funny (and heartwarming) story: My mom ended up meeting someone who shared her love of classic movies. Their first conversation revolved around Casablanca and who could quote more lines. They’ve been together for three years now, and it’s proof that love and connection truly have no age limit.

Another friend of mine, who’s in her late 60s, joined a senior dating site not expecting much. To her surprise, she met a widower who shared her love of gardening. Their first date was at a local botanical garden, and now they spend weekends tending to a shared plot at their community garden.

Challenges Seniors May Face

Of course, it’s not all smooth sailing. Some seniors feel nervous about diving into the online dating world, especially if it’s their first time. Others worry about rejection or not finding someone compatible. But in my experience, the key is patience and persistence. My mom didn’t meet her partner overnight—it took a few months of chatting and a couple of dud dates—but the journey was worth it.

Senior-specific dating sites are fantastic for anyone looking to form meaningful connections later in life. They cater to the unique challenges and desires of older adults while creating a safe and welcoming environment. Whether you’re helping a parent, friend, or considering it for yourself, I can’t recommend these platforms enough.

As I always say to my mom and her friends: "It’s never too late for a new beginning." If you’re willing to put yourself out there, even just a little, you might be surprised by the connections you make. After all, everyone deserves a chance at love—no matter their age.

Hopefully, this helps anyone considering joining a senior dating site. Remember, it’s all about finding what feels right for you!

Companionship services often include participating in activities that the senior enjoys, including:

• Reading books
• Light housekeeping
• Sharing stories
• Playing games
• Taking walks
• Meal preparation
• Shopping

No senior should ever feel alone. Caring Senior Service provides companionship care services that deliver healthy social interaction to seniors. Our caregivers are a care companion for your loved ones offering the love, respect, and care that they deserve.

Whether you need companion care every day or just for a few hours a day, we have the perfect companion for your parent.

What Is Companion Care?

Many seniors live alone or are alone in their home for portions of the day. During this time, seniors may feel lonely, isolated, or even depressed, which can lead to poor physical health.

Companion care puts someone in the home to provide healthy social interaction for these seniors.

But companionship for seniors is more than just a sitter service. We strive to build quality relationships with seniors and to fill the time with meaningful and stimulating activities.

When I think about relationship blogging and what I have read, a lot of people make points that everyone is different so its hard to pinpoint the real problem. Although it is true that everyone is different but in reality we all go through the same bull that lead us to all our unanswered questions. To make it successful you need to get down to the gritty truth from your own personal experiences, because that's all you have to vouch for. I cant speak for everyone else, I only hope that what I choose to talk about resonates with as many readers as possible. I hope that everyone can relate to at least one aspect of my what I thought was flourishing relationships to the horribly and epically failed ones. The end.

• How does anyone percept the above ❓❓❓ from your views. When a senior single , is left alone , he / she will start thinking all kinds of things in their mind . It's normal human physiology behaviour. They may think that they are not worth a shilling anymore in this ill gotten society. It's all in your mind set. If u think like that u will be garbage forever. One thing senior singles should know is , for them to pass , live , enjoy life for a day is a bonus an plus point from Lord. One thing one needs to realize is not everyone is gifted to attain that level of seniority . As a senior single one e truly needs to be proud of oneself , that he / she can contribute something priceless to the younger generation an others. Seniors are always one living model inspiration for the younger generation. Now when it comes to “LOVE * ,it has no age barrier , colour , creed , religion. etc2 The power of love glows forever in your ♥️♥️ ,if you realize that love is truly blind Now how does one one let the power of love to glow always , till your last breath ?? Let the grey matter start cracking 😆😆😆. To be honest when one has attained the “SENIORS" status , one must always remember that one is truly lucky to survive till today. It's always best to fast forward reverse your sweet memories from the day you fell in love Sweet memories are hard to fade & priceless. One should do the same routine , getting the roses 🌹🌹, an. giving it to the lady who with them. This time the love will be different cos one is fully matured, have he ability to understand the true meaning of love , care , companionship , etc2 It's always best to be positive ,, speak up your mind , an have confidence Always remember that you have only one 🌹🌹 deep inside your ♥️♥️♥️ One should take great pains to treat , value , appreciate , full understand the woman that they are dating. For sure there bond to be chemistry when you speak things iof common interests to the woman. Always best to maintain eye contact , observe body language an follow the flow . Believe in yourself , that if it's meant for you , it's meant for you. Never ever be disappointed, if the “LOVE" ends up in failure Things might happen for a reason , that lord only knows One should take things as a blessing in disguise always The Lord plans everything for everybody accordingly . Been a senior , one truly doesn't have much commitments like paying for a car or housing loan. I would say it's a “ BREAK" from the usual stress Follow the flow , trust your instincts , do things that you enjoy the most an the ones that make you happy As seniors you are the encouraging group to the younger generation to realise the true meaning of love. It's lord, s provision 💯💯💯 Keep smiling. We only live today. 😆😆

I tried to get my mother (then 84) online dating on Plenty of Fish and only found ~ 5 candidates over 70 in the area. Signup may be better with 60’s and younger.

I would not recommend ‘specialist dating sites’ or any site that did not have a useable free level of service (ie able to search plus send and receive messages).

Over the 3 years I was online dating I found I was far far more likely to get scammed by the site itself than it’s users. Online Dating is a funny business model, if a service works it will haemorrhage users (one successful match loses two users). It is much cheaper and easier to con someone into subscribing and accept they will leave in disgust after a few months.

At the moment it is fairly easy to test this, create a blank male profile and leave it for a week, if it gets any messages from other users (usually from attractive ladies interested in Sexxx, one site would have be believe that 10% of the next village fell into that category, later inspection showed this was not the case).

Scammers will control a whole string of niche sites Christian dating, over 40’s, Fetish Sex, Model Railway fans, Geek, BDSM etc. and use the sign-ups from one site to pad out the membership of their other sites.

Free dating sites don’t have this temptation, their interests are best served by people coming back to look at the adverts (and maybe buying some of the extras), which is not unreasonable apparently it takes about 30 first dates to find a relationship.

As Scott mentioned before me, “independent go-getters” (your words) don’t need tips on approaching men. They just do it. Actually, they might be the experts on the topic - don’t know how knowledgeable you are (no offence).

On the other hand, I’m not sure what religious background has to do with it - if they’re supposed to marry within their religion, fine, but that’s a whole project in itself.

Women looking for a marriage mate is quite a niche…depends on what you’re trying to achieve with the blog. And what happens to your audience if they - thanks to your advice - get married and move out of the target group?

Don’t mean to be sceptical, just realistic - wish you luck!