One thing it took me forever to learn was people who bring you down, who are always complaining, who are just replicas and copies of the celebrities they see on T.V. are NOT people you need in your life. Cut out the negativity, find people who inspire you, who strive to do good and challenge themselves, because these people will bring those same aspects out in you. surround yourself with people who you admire, and ditch the rest. It may seem harsh, but it needs to be done.